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BeDJ
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I received a PM from a member to critique his writing. Care to discuss?
http://postmatrixmale.wordpress.com/
http://postmatrixmale.wordpress.com/
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
jafyk
Master Don Juan
If he PMed you to respond to critique his opinion. Did you stop to consider that maybe he just wanted your opinion only and not share it with everyone else? SMH!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Yes, I must ask the same question. Did this member ask for you critique in confidence? If so you might want to remove the link and ask if he minds.
sylvester the cat
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yet another thread that proves that little green squares and wisdom do not go hand in hand...
B
BeDJ
Guest
Yes.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I'm not clear... He PM'd you to look at his site, and doesn't mind your publishing it here publically. Is that correct?
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BeDJ
Guest
Correct.