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BeDJ
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I received a PM from a member to critique his writing. Care to discuss?
http://postmatrixmale.wordpress.com/
http://postmatrixmale.wordpress.com/
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
jafyk
Master Don Juan
If he PMed you to respond to critique his opinion. Did you stop to consider that maybe he just wanted your opinion only and not share it with everyone else? SMH!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Yes, I must ask the same question. Did this member ask for you critique in confidence? If so you might want to remove the link and ask if he minds.
sylvester the cat
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yet another thread that proves that little green squares and wisdom do not go hand in hand...
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BeDJ
Guest
Yes.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I'm not clear... He PM'd you to look at his site, and doesn't mind your publishing it here publically. Is that correct?
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BeDJ
Guest
Correct.