"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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so i dumped my girlfriend back in march when she was actin up and hiding **** from me. and at that point she started dating a military guy.. he left for iraq and since shes been talkin with me and hanging out. and honestly we have more fun now that i see us as just friends. but she gets weirded out when i tell her about the other women i see and how much better me and her are as friends and always tries to change the subject.

So i brought that up 2 her and shes like IDK, im like well u moved on and are in a relationship and its like u dont want to see me in one. Shes told her b/f that shes hung out with me but he doesnt know how much and that its been just me and her alone a lot of the time and even at her house. She talks to me all the time and we chill pretty frequently.

whenever i leave at night she gives me a big hug like she used to when we dated..

IDK what to take from this or how to handle it.. any insight is appreciated
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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damn no thoughts...
well last night we chilled at my friends party and played some beer pong and flip cup, she had gotten a bit buzzed, came back to my place to switch cars but went up to use the bathroom, and found her hiding in my bed...

i told her get out.. she just stuck her tongue out at me, so i hopd in bed and we talked for a lil and she ended up playful fighting and ****, i wasnt going to take it anywhere because i dont prey on the drunk. so i told her get up im taken u home.. but really y would she do this and spend so much time with me if she is in as much love as she says she is in with her b/f in iraq
 

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I think you should have some respect for the guy in Iraq and leave her alone. She should respect him, too. I hope she's not going to mess around on him with you or anyone else. Show this man some f'ing respect and leave her alone.
 

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Trust me Im not gunna let anything happen between us. it very easily could have.. even though dude was trying to hook up with her while she was with me.. and thats y i dumped her.

she keeps coming to me.. wanting to hang out and ****.. so its like wtf?
 

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shes the one that wants me to tell her shes beautiful and hug her and **** and hold her. she says oh i love him but its just so hard blah blah... they were dating for a week b4 he left to go to iraq too...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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