"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AgentRice

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so i dumped my girlfriend back in march when she was actin up and hiding **** from me. and at that point she started dating a military guy.. he left for iraq and since shes been talkin with me and hanging out. and honestly we have more fun now that i see us as just friends. but she gets weirded out when i tell her about the other women i see and how much better me and her are as friends and always tries to change the subject.

So i brought that up 2 her and shes like IDK, im like well u moved on and are in a relationship and its like u dont want to see me in one. Shes told her b/f that shes hung out with me but he doesnt know how much and that its been just me and her alone a lot of the time and even at her house. She talks to me all the time and we chill pretty frequently.

whenever i leave at night she gives me a big hug like she used to when we dated..

IDK what to take from this or how to handle it.. any insight is appreciated
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AgentRice

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damn no thoughts...
well last night we chilled at my friends party and played some beer pong and flip cup, she had gotten a bit buzzed, came back to my place to switch cars but went up to use the bathroom, and found her hiding in my bed...

i told her get out.. she just stuck her tongue out at me, so i hopd in bed and we talked for a lil and she ended up playful fighting and ****, i wasnt going to take it anywhere because i dont prey on the drunk. so i told her get up im taken u home.. but really y would she do this and spend so much time with me if she is in as much love as she says she is in with her b/f in iraq
 

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I think you should have some respect for the guy in Iraq and leave her alone. She should respect him, too. I hope she's not going to mess around on him with you or anyone else. Show this man some f'ing respect and leave her alone.
 

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Trust me Im not gunna let anything happen between us. it very easily could have.. even though dude was trying to hook up with her while she was with me.. and thats y i dumped her.

she keeps coming to me.. wanting to hang out and ****.. so its like wtf?
 

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shes the one that wants me to tell her shes beautiful and hug her and **** and hold her. she says oh i love him but its just so hard blah blah... they were dating for a week b4 he left to go to iraq too...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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