Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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so i dumped my girlfriend back in march when she was actin up and hiding **** from me. and at that point she started dating a military guy.. he left for iraq and since shes been talkin with me and hanging out. and honestly we have more fun now that i see us as just friends. but she gets weirded out when i tell her about the other women i see and how much better me and her are as friends and always tries to change the subject.

So i brought that up 2 her and shes like IDK, im like well u moved on and are in a relationship and its like u dont want to see me in one. Shes told her b/f that shes hung out with me but he doesnt know how much and that its been just me and her alone a lot of the time and even at her house. She talks to me all the time and we chill pretty frequently.

whenever i leave at night she gives me a big hug like she used to when we dated..

IDK what to take from this or how to handle it.. any insight is appreciated
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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damn no thoughts...
well last night we chilled at my friends party and played some beer pong and flip cup, she had gotten a bit buzzed, came back to my place to switch cars but went up to use the bathroom, and found her hiding in my bed...

i told her get out.. she just stuck her tongue out at me, so i hopd in bed and we talked for a lil and she ended up playful fighting and ****, i wasnt going to take it anywhere because i dont prey on the drunk. so i told her get up im taken u home.. but really y would she do this and spend so much time with me if she is in as much love as she says she is in with her b/f in iraq
 
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I think you should have some respect for the guy in Iraq and leave her alone. She should respect him, too. I hope she's not going to mess around on him with you or anyone else. Show this man some f'ing respect and leave her alone.
 
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Trust me Im not gunna let anything happen between us. it very easily could have.. even though dude was trying to hook up with her while she was with me.. and thats y i dumped her.

she keeps coming to me.. wanting to hang out and ****.. so its like wtf?
 
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shes the one that wants me to tell her shes beautiful and hug her and **** and hold her. she says oh i love him but its just so hard blah blah... they were dating for a week b4 he left to go to iraq too...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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