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Thoughts on "I don't kiss on the first date" girls?

Korrupt

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In my opinion if a girl rejects my kiss the date's immediately over and there's not gonna be a second unless she chases after me.

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DarkShade

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Tell her the first date is over and the second date is beginning right now
 

49au

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That's a really bad sign...

There has to be some kind of sexuality established, kissing on the first date is the absolute minimum.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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49au said:
That's a really bad sign...

There has to be some kind of sexuality established, kissing on the first date is the absolute minimum.
I agree with 49au. I've never had a really good date end with "I never kiss on the first date." I have, however, had really bad dates where the girl didn't want to kiss me or I didn't want to kiss her...

At this point in my life if a girl doesn't kiss on the first date then she's either not interested, too religious, or she's not sexually open-minded/comfortable enough for me to date her.
 

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r0cky

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Wow. You really expect them to chase you? If she rejected your kiss its because she's not ready and you need to create more attraction. By ending the date all you're accomplishing is giving the more persistant guy a chance. And for what? because that scared little voice inside told you to leave? ("She rejected my kiss?! I'll show her!").

When you offer someone a glass of water, they're likely to reject it on the first offer, they'll probably accept it on the second, most people accept it on the third try. Everyone, even those who are not thirsty, will accept a glass of water on your fourth offer just to not give a bad impression.
Same thing applies here. Treat your kiss like a glass of water, she's the one that's winning, but at the same time, she probably doesn't want to appear like she really wants it.

Its all part of the game, and you can't win if you quit on your first failure.
 

r0cky

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BTW. 2 great comebacks to "i dont kiss on the first date":
"Thats ok, I dont kiss until the 10th date."
"I have anal on the first date".
 

escaleraroyal

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if she doesnt kiss you u should force her to kiss you and she will be submissive
 

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girls become the "I don't kiss on the first date girls" to they guys they have no interest or attraction for. they don't want to kiss them. on the previous date they were making out with the last guy.
 

r0cky

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Ace_Magnamus said:
girls become the "I don't kiss on the first date girls" to they guys they have no interest or attraction for. they don't want to kiss them. on the previous date they were making out with the last guy.
Not true. On average, girls will reject my first 2 even 3 attempts at kissing before we start making out. Even girls whom I've had sex with have rejected my kisses at the beginning.
 

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r0cky said:
Not true. On average, girls will reject my first 2 even 3 attempts at kissing before we start making out. Even girls whom I've had sex with have rejected my kisses at the beginning.
What I said is true. A girl rejects a guy's kiss because she is not attracted to him or is not interested. That usually ends it for them. If some guys are able to get more dates they can like you say you did. most guys dont because I dated girls who were making out with me wouldnt kiss another date because they didnt want to because they werent interested in them. they also didn't get another date with them.
 
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