Korrupt
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In my opinion if a girl rejects my kiss the date's immediately over and there's not gonna be a second unless she chases after me.
Thoughts?
Thoughts?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Thoughts on "I don't kiss on the first date" girls?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ringleader41
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It means you failed at gaming her
Deadly_Ripped
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I agree with 49au. I've never had a really good date end with "I never kiss on the first date." I have, however, had really bad dates where the girl didn't want to kiss me or I didn't want to kiss her...49au said:That's a really bad sign...
There has to be some kind of sexuality established, kissing on the first date is the absolute minimum.
At this point in my life if a girl doesn't kiss on the first date then she's either not interested, too religious, or she's not sexually open-minded/comfortable enough for me to date her.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Wow. You really expect them to chase you? If she rejected your kiss its because she's not ready and you need to create more attraction. By ending the date all you're accomplishing is giving the more persistant guy a chance. And for what? because that scared little voice inside told you to leave? ("She rejected my kiss?! I'll show her!").
When you offer someone a glass of water, they're likely to reject it on the first offer, they'll probably accept it on the second, most people accept it on the third try. Everyone, even those who are not thirsty, will accept a glass of water on your fourth offer just to not give a bad impression.
Same thing applies here. Treat your kiss like a glass of water, she's the one that's winning, but at the same time, she probably doesn't want to appear like she really wants it.
Its all part of the game, and you can't win if you quit on your first failure.
When you offer someone a glass of water, they're likely to reject it on the first offer, they'll probably accept it on the second, most people accept it on the third try. Everyone, even those who are not thirsty, will accept a glass of water on your fourth offer just to not give a bad impression.
Same thing applies here. Treat your kiss like a glass of water, she's the one that's winning, but at the same time, she probably doesn't want to appear like she really wants it.
Its all part of the game, and you can't win if you quit on your first failure.
escaleraroyal
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if she doesnt kiss you u should force her to kiss you and she will be submissive
Ace_Magnamus
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girls become the "I don't kiss on the first date girls" to they guys they have no interest or attraction for. they don't want to kiss them. on the previous date they were making out with the last guy.
Not true. On average, girls will reject my first 2 even 3 attempts at kissing before we start making out. Even girls whom I've had sex with have rejected my kisses at the beginning.Ace_Magnamus said:girls become the "I don't kiss on the first date girls" to they guys they have no interest or attraction for. they don't want to kiss them. on the previous date they were making out with the last guy.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ace_Magnamus
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What I said is true. A girl rejects a guy's kiss because she is not attracted to him or is not interested. That usually ends it for them. If some guys are able to get more dates they can like you say you did. most guys dont because I dated girls who were making out with me wouldnt kiss another date because they didnt want to because they werent interested in them. they also didn't get another date with them.r0cky said:Not true. On average, girls will reject my first 2 even 3 attempts at kissing before we start making out. Even girls whom I've had sex with have rejected my kisses at the beginning.