"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thoughts of a convicted felon

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It's 4:25 on the westside. My minds drifting and shifting around like the sand though an hour glass. I feel as if I'm in a perpetual battle against time and each grain of sand that shimmys through is another moment thats lost forever. Time is chasing me through dark alleys. I wake in cold sweat and look at the red LED on my casio alarm clock and it hits me like a TON OF BRICKS. This is my life and I'm slowly dying one second at a time.

I sit up slowly and say to myself "self, you don't have any more options" I'm out of excuses. The liquor is invading my kidneys. PUKE. Now everything that was considered mundane turns into a Mark Twain like adventure. I decide to enter the game with a ZEN like RAZOR focus and never look back. It's a journey that few men take. It's a journey that few men make. But these are heros. These are space explorers. They write movies about these men.

Frank from middle management loves his job. Hell, Frank is the best guy in the world. Everyday for the last 6 and a half years he's done exactly the same thing and made a little bit of money doing it. He's accumlated a few nice things but nothing spectacular. His family loves him. But something is eating Frank alive. He knows that someday he will be dead and his legacy will be that of another cog in the machine. Frank could of scaled Evererst. Fought Terrorist. Frank could have Traveled the world chasing hot beautiful women of different cultures and soaking in the culture. Franks already dead he just doesn't know it yet.

BOOM. My mind is still foggy. I look in at the hourglass and see my relfection. I've taken risks. Not enough. I see people that want to see me fail. The room closes in on me. It's filled with everyone who has ever wished ill will upon me. Jealously. Envy. Hate. I see friends. I see family. I see Oprah? WTF? What the hell is Oprah doing there and where is Stedman? Oh, they broke up and she's banging Jamie Foxxx? Thanks GoD. I know J Foxxx was a DJ.

I've come to the reality that maybe no one really....I MEAN really wants me to live out my dreams. No one but myself. I'm the only one who lays in bed at night scheming on ways to come up in the world. Its a cold reality but the sooner you learn it the better of you will be.

Trials and tribulation make the man. GET REJECTED. Embrace it. It actually is HER loss. She'll end up with a FRANK. You? Well you may have a little bit of work to do on yourself but you'll never be FRANK. You couldn't live with that, could you? You get a drink tossed on you? Laugh it off. Then slap that hoe like she was Tina Turner circa 74. The choice is up to you my friends. The game is going on around us. Make that choice. Look at that clock. Your the type of guy they make movies about.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hiiiiiiiiiii Helooooooooo POINT!! POINT were are you boy come back point POINT I CANT SEE YOU POINTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!

Whats the point of this thread?

Ninja out
 

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Now that's deep man.

very insperational.

too bad, times up for me. I wish I did more.
 

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Um, yeah... um... huh?!?

:confused:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Casino
I've come to the reality that maybe no one really....I MEAN really wants me to live out my dreams. No one but myself. I'm the only one who lays in bed at night scheming on ways to come up in the world. Its a cold reality but the sooner you learn it the better of you will be.

Trials and tribulation make the man. GET REJECTED. Embrace it. It actually is HER loss. She'll end up with a FRANK. You? Well you may have a little bit of work to do on yourself but you'll never be FRANK. You couldn't live with that, could you? You get a drink tossed on you? Laugh it off. Then slap that hoe like she was Tina Turner circa 74. The choice is up to you my friends. The game is going on around us. Make that choice. Look at that clock. Your the type of guy they make movies about.
I really like these last two paragraphs, especially the last one.
 

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nice writting! THanks for shaing.
 

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too bad, times up for me. I wish I did more.
What?? Your only 22...

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Lost - i wrote it last night. I think it was a combination of lack of sleep and the liquor talking
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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These are the type of thoughts I live with everyday. Great writing man.
 
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