"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What was their reaction? I have two close buddies who are the usually AFC. They cling to oneitis but I try to give them advice based on this site. I don’t want them to be in shock and turn their world completely around as this did for me. It literally changed my whole view point from the embodiment of the nice guy to spinning plates. What is y’alls stories on sharing this site with your onetitis stricken friends?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You shouldn't be afraid about who you are and your belief system. Just tell them you've been getting advice from here and show them the site.

However, if you are worried, you can always just say "look what I found when I was googling xyz!!"

Then if they talk the site down, converse with them about what you read. You can only lead a horse to water
 
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they asked anything?

the unsaid rule is, don't, lead by example, if they agree most with you and try to apply what you said and they want to learn more then yes you lead then here, if not, better not, most will fight back, they ego won't let then change they can't be wrong after all this time so they will refuse and not listen.

at the very least they need to be open minded and wanting to learn, if not it will just make drama
 
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I've found the gravitational pull of the blue pill to be very strong for most men. I've had some outright reject any red pill mentality. My experience has been younger men under 30 are far more open to advice than men over 40. I really don't give unsolicited advice anymore as it's a waste of time.
 
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Alvafe said:
they asked anything?

the unsaid rule is, don't, lead by example, if they agree most with you and try to apply what you said and they want to learn more then yes you lead then here, if not, better not, most will fight back, they ego won't let then change they can't be wrong after all this time so they will refuse and not listen.

at the very least they need to be open minded and wanting to learn, if not it will just make drama
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Alright, yeah that makes sense. I mean they seem pretty open minded and have a lot of the same agreements as this site but they still get stuck on girls, don’t understand the idea of having options, etc. but I’ll keep giving them advice, but they have disagreed with me on some things like you mentioned.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My brothers agree with most red pill points, but aren't the types to go on any online forums.
 
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