"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thor
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
zekko
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Oh, I love Scarlett Johansson. She's been funny on Saturday Night Live. And she looks sexy as hell in a red wig as the Black Widow (in Iron Man 2, and the upcoming Avengers movie). Seems like with a name like Scarlett she should have red hair anyway.samspade said:
What scares me is this obsession with celebrities. Girls being in love with total douchebags. I fear the day when Clooney runs for president.
Do you think Hillary gets wet having conference with Ahmaniejad - total badguy?
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No, she knows that he isn't that powerful. The mainstream media plays it up like he's the leader of their country, the hildabeast knows better.DanelMadr said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Men and women....though women do it to a greater extent.samspade said:
I think we all know that lard ass who's always wearing some famous athlete's jersey and has every single stat of the best players memorized. This guy couldn't even manage a push up let alone play a sport. But that doesn't stop him from knowing more about sports than the ESPN sportscasters who at least get paid for their knowledge.