"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Oh, I love Scarlett Johansson. She's been funny on Saturday Night Live. And she looks sexy as hell in a red wig as the Black Widow (in Iron Man 2, and the upcoming Avengers movie). Seems like with a name like Scarlett she should have red hair anyway.samspade said:
What scares me is this obsession with celebrities. Girls being in love with total douchebags. I fear the day when Clooney runs for president.
Do you think Hillary gets wet having conference with Ahmaniejad - total badguy?
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No, she knows that he isn't that powerful. The mainstream media plays it up like he's the leader of their country, the hildabeast knows better.DanelMadr said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Men and women....though women do it to a greater extent.samspade said:
I think we all know that lard ass who's always wearing some famous athlete's jersey and has every single stat of the best players memorized. This guy couldn't even manage a push up let alone play a sport. But that doesn't stop him from knowing more about sports than the ESPN sportscasters who at least get paid for their knowledge.