MatureDJ
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This Woman Rejected All 5000 Men Who Applied to Date Her
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- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BaronOfHair
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Quote the article: "Most women complain about getting too many messages on dating apps. Vera Dijkmans had the opposite problem — she got exactly what she asked for and still wasn’t happy about it"
When Tyler Durden lamented the absence of war in The Post-Industrial West in 2000, entirely too many of us fellas just nodded our heads subserviently... A year later, we got our wish(20 f-cking years of what was essentially a 3rd World War. The likes of which still hasn't quite concluded), and yet we STILL groan: "There's no opportunity to be a warrior anymore!!!"
We're often willfully blind to the abundance which surrounds us
When Tyler Durden lamented the absence of war in The Post-Industrial West in 2000, entirely too many of us fellas just nodded our heads subserviently... A year later, we got our wish(20 f-cking years of what was essentially a 3rd World War. The likes of which still hasn't quite concluded), and yet we STILL groan: "There's no opportunity to be a warrior anymore!!!"
We're often willfully blind to the abundance which surrounds us
Gamisch
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I recently dealt with a woman like this.
It's a headache. There will be countless orbiters and ofcourse the stubborn crazy exes who she actually will use for all kinds of favors.
Women like this dont need OLD. Hence why the male female ratio is 70/30 . OLD would give such a woman more options , more headache tor her.
I dont know what to say. This is just life. When you start actually attracting women like this you know you're doing something right...
It's a headache. There will be countless orbiters and ofcourse the stubborn crazy exes who she actually will use for all kinds of favors.
Women like this dont need OLD. Hence why the male female ratio is 70/30 . OLD would give such a woman more options , more headache tor her.
I dont know what to say. This is just life. When you start actually attracting women like this you know you're doing something right...
Slowhandluke
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Slowhandluke
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regardless of how attractive she is, some guy some where is already tired of her shiet... and old age will catch up with her sooner or later...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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She is the type of woman who needs to be grudge fvcked in the ass and taught a lesson 
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MatureDJ
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Nah, I'd just spread those long legs wide, and pump away up the orifice that evolution has given us.She is the type of woman who needs to be grudge ****ed in the ass and taught a lesson
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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average girl vs. hot girl
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I’d hit it before you.
you go girl! Reject those losers!
Broooootal bro.
dude be careful with those BP videos.. it’s just too much Brutal Truth man ;P
MatureDJ
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OLD is pretty much a black hole.
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This MID thinks she's "too hot to work". The 10 million tiktok ****s/simps who followed her, gassed her up too much Absolute brainrot. Imagine dating her?
Absolute brainrot. Imagine dating her?Slowhandluke
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This MID thinks she's "too hot to work". The 10 million tiktok ****s/simps who followed her, gassed her up too much
only human
-the matrix
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
tksniper
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When I was younger and used to work at Victoria Secret, I met quite a few extremely sexy women that would never even dream of using online dating. Their instagrams would be private. But in person they were surprisingly easy going and attainable, even for casual flings.
I think online everything skews people’s perception of reality. This woman most definitely cannot attract 5000 high quality men in real life. In fact I am willing to bet most high quality men would be sick and tired of her intolerable ego.
I think online everything skews people’s perception of reality. This woman most definitely cannot attract 5000 high quality men in real life. In fact I am willing to bet most high quality men would be sick and tired of her intolerable ego.