"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So basically how I understood so far.
Become the best version of yourself and learn the game while not giving a **** about girls.
That's everything this forum is trying to teach right?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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More or less.
 

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Discover the power, society doesn't want you to know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ya ... basically any energy you might put into investing in a girl .. invest in self improvement instead ... then let them come to you.
 

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You are better and more important than any girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think Forum 4 main points are;

1) make a positive impact to society
2) be emotionally, financially, mentally, and physically in control at all times
3) Do not supplicate with women
4) She is only along for the ride

Forum has never said don't care about girls or tell all girls to go to hell.
 

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Forum has never said don't care about girls or tell all girls to go to hell.
Let's be honest here, this has been the subject of very many threads. However there's not consensus about it on the forum, but a significant amount of members have expressed that opinion. At least about not giving a fvck.

My sentence: Don't be a doormat, take personal responsibility, make your life better and get to a point where life is generally enjoyable.

This forum focuses mostly on problems with women, but other major aspects of human life are also commonly discussed. I came here because I struggled with women, but my core issues wasn't really about women. My struggle with them was merely a symptom of other problems which affected my performance with them.
 
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Keep on pushing. You will fail, just keep pushing. One day, you will look back, and see how far you have come. Did that feel nice? Good. Now, keep on pushing.
 

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Let's be honest here, this has been the subject of very many threads. However there's not consensus about it on the forum, but a significant amount of members have expressed that opinion. At least about not giving a fvck.
I've never thought that IDGAF literally meant that you should never care about anyone. It's more like an attitude you should have when cold approaching women. If one rejects you, you shrug it off and don't give a fvck, go on to the next. Don't get focused on just one woman.

Even in a relationship, if she starts to act up, you have to be willing to walk if it starts to self destruct. You can't take an "I can't live without her" attitude. You have to be able to stand on your own feet, with or without her. She has to be an enhancement for your life, not your whole life. That doesn't mean that you literally don't care at all about her though.

That's how I take it anyway. I know there are guys here who probably take it more literally, like the guys who look up to psycopaths.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I guess if you're looking to pick up Squeaky Fromme, Manson would be a good guy to emulate.
 

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The main message I have taken from this forum is to improve yourself, for you.

That's not to say don't care about anyone else, just look after yourself first.
 

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I guess if you're looking to pick up Squeaky Fromme, Manson would be a good guy to emulate.
Who doesn't love a smelly hippie chick with tons of body hair and a willingness to do anything, I do mean anything. She shot Gerald Ford while Chucky was in prison, so Squeaky was good to go....LOL
 

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I've never thought that IDGAF literally meant that you should never care about anyone. It's more like an attitude you should have when cold approaching women. If one rejects you, you shrug it off and don't give a fvck, go on to the next. Don't get focused on just one woman.
I know that and I'm well aware that most other experienced members view it like that as well. You don't have to tell me this.

Still it's a common discussion on the forum and guys are often advised not to care about women. So many lesser experienced guys ends up completely wrecking it with women, because they interpret it as a trick. They think by ignoring her completely she'll magically come chasing like he was Brad Pitt or something.

I think the IDGAF attitude goes a bit far sometimes anyways, some guys really do literally not give a single fvck. Don't forget that this forum may attract psychopaths, the one's who've been unsuccessful and looks for harmful tactics. Which also is found on this forum.
 

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Who doesn't love a smelly hippie chick with tons of body hair and a willingness to do anything, I do mean anything. She shot Gerald Ford while Chucky was in prison, so Squeaky was good to go....LOL
You are welcome to her, buddy. As for me, I think I'll take a pass. ;)

I know that and I'm well aware that most other experienced members view it like that as well. You don't have to tell me this.
I was just writing a general response to the forum, I wasn't directing it at you personally.

I do think that some posters here do take IDGAF literally, shoot some probably make it work for them lol. Although you are probably right, most are probably new posters who don't quite understand all the subtleties yet. I also agree that this forum probably attracts psycopaths, after all the seduction community is one of the few places where they are hero worshipped.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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