"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This what I consider a HB7. Anyone else agree?
- Thread starter stuka1939
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Poonani Maker
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She looks insecure. HB5.5
oakraiderz2
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No.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Daddy The Pimp
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she's not more than 6 .
fresh_to_death
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I'm not attracted to her whatsoever, but I'd still stick it in her pooper just because she is W/H proportionate, holding a beer, and you just never know if she could rock your meat.
stuka1939
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fresh_to_death said:
Christ, you guys are picky. Here is another one of her. I don't personally know this girl, but she is on the friends list of a girl I know.
http://i255.photobucket.com/albums/hh140/stuka8739/n43906197_30993558_1641.jpg
It's hard to judge because not much of her body is showing. Her first pic was mostly her face and it was 5-6. This pic looks much better. And if she has a decent body, smooth nice skin, etc., I could see her being maybe a 6-7.5. Not enough info..stuka1939 said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
stuka1939
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http://i255.photobucket.com/albums/hh140/stuka8739/n5819621_32754383_8068.jpg
Here is another one. The nose is a little too big for the face, but she is still an attractive girl. That is what a 7 is. Attractive, but not hot. She kind of has a Wynona Ryder look to her.
Face it, the majority of women are not above a 7 anyways.
Here is another one. The nose is a little too big for the face, but she is still an attractive girl. That is what a 7 is. Attractive, but not hot. She kind of has a Wynona Ryder look to her.
Face it, the majority of women are not above a 7 anyways.
Bible_Belt
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photobucket tells me 'page not found.'
fresh_to_death
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I'm not saying she is ugly based on some scale. She is a lovely looking girl, just not my cup of tea.stuka1939 said:
Bible_Belt
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ok, one of the pics works for me now.
I agree that she is a hb7.
Did you see the Miss America thread where most guys said that she was a 7 or 8? Sosuave is hard to please.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=138450
I agree that she is a hb7.
Did you see the Miss America thread where most guys said that she was a 7 or 8? Sosuave is hard to please.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=138450
Colin O'Brien
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Damn you guys are picky. 7-8 imo
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ValleyDJing
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Thats because the site itself has brainwashed them into thinking they actually deserve hot chicks. Most of these dudes shouldn't be with anything better than a 4.Bible_Belt said:
The Grey Fox
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That was a joke right? btw I'd say that the girl in this thread was a 7 and miss America was an 8.5 at most and that's not being too picky I'd be more than happy with an 8.5 I'm just saying that there are many hotter girls out there.Stuka1939 _ said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.