"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This what I consider a HB7. Anyone else agree?
- Thread starter stuka1939
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Poonani Maker
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She looks insecure. HB5.5
oakraiderz2
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No.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Daddy The Pimp
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she's not more than 6 .
fresh_to_death
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I'm not attracted to her whatsoever, but I'd still stick it in her pooper just because she is W/H proportionate, holding a beer, and you just never know if she could rock your meat.
stuka1939
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fresh_to_death said:
Christ, you guys are picky. Here is another one of her. I don't personally know this girl, but she is on the friends list of a girl I know.
http://i255.photobucket.com/albums/hh140/stuka8739/n43906197_30993558_1641.jpg
It's hard to judge because not much of her body is showing. Her first pic was mostly her face and it was 5-6. This pic looks much better. And if she has a decent body, smooth nice skin, etc., I could see her being maybe a 6-7.5. Not enough info..stuka1939 said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
stuka1939
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http://i255.photobucket.com/albums/hh140/stuka8739/n5819621_32754383_8068.jpg
Here is another one. The nose is a little too big for the face, but she is still an attractive girl. That is what a 7 is. Attractive, but not hot. She kind of has a Wynona Ryder look to her.
Face it, the majority of women are not above a 7 anyways.
Here is another one. The nose is a little too big for the face, but she is still an attractive girl. That is what a 7 is. Attractive, but not hot. She kind of has a Wynona Ryder look to her.
Face it, the majority of women are not above a 7 anyways.
Bible_Belt
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photobucket tells me 'page not found.'
fresh_to_death
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I'm not saying she is ugly based on some scale. She is a lovely looking girl, just not my cup of tea.stuka1939 said:
Bible_Belt
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ok, one of the pics works for me now.
I agree that she is a hb7.
Did you see the Miss America thread where most guys said that she was a 7 or 8? Sosuave is hard to please.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=138450
I agree that she is a hb7.
Did you see the Miss America thread where most guys said that she was a 7 or 8? Sosuave is hard to please.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=138450
Colin O'Brien
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Damn you guys are picky. 7-8 imo
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ValleyDJing
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Thats because the site itself has brainwashed them into thinking they actually deserve hot chicks. Most of these dudes shouldn't be with anything better than a 4.Bible_Belt said:
The Grey Fox
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That was a joke right? btw I'd say that the girl in this thread was a 7 and miss America was an 8.5 at most and that's not being too picky I'd be more than happy with an 8.5 I'm just saying that there are many hotter girls out there.Stuka1939 _ said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.