"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This teen angst thing goes away, right?

Vice

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It's really detrimental to my game.
I can't even control it. It just happens. Stupid hormones.
Anyway, when does it end? lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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That's too ****ing long!
 

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For me closer to 30-31, lol.

It ends when you realize that the world is not against you and everyone is not hating on you or judging you, it only feels that way because you're so caught up in your own life, and judging yourself, you think others are caught up in your life and judging you as well.

None of it's true. People are concerned with themselves.
 

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hey once you turn 30, you just don't care what people think of you anymore and you say what you want to , and you do what you want to.
no regrets, no surrender!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well I suppose as a 17 year old the idea of the world being against me is supposed to be normal, but a year's worth of exposure to David DeAngelo's seminars and reading sites like these has caused me to think otherwise.

Thank God that my brain is still in the developmental stages, so once I mature I won't have as many problems "re-wiring" my social and mental behavior like you older guys.
 

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resistnance is the cause of all suffering. accept whatever feelings you have. don't fall into the trap of waiting for them to be gone tomorrow, becaue tomororw never comes. breath into the feelings, and experiences them. accept them for what they are. Accept YOU for who you are. you will always be changing, always be growing and learning. you will never ever GET THERE becasue there is no THERE. there is only HERE, and there is only NOW.

Acceptance is key. Breath deeply, accept who you are and how you feel.
 

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taiyuu_otoko said:
resistnance is the cause of all suffering. accept whatever feelings you have. don't fall into the trap of waiting for them to be gone tomorrow, becaue tomororw never comes. breath into the feelings, and experiences them. accept them for what they are. Accept YOU for who you are. you will always be changing, always be growing and learning. you will never ever GET THERE becasue there is no THERE. there is only HERE, and there is only NOW.

Acceptance is key. Breath deeply, accept who you are and how you feel.
golden !
 

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taiyuu_otoko said:
resistnance is the cause of all suffering. accept whatever feelings you have. don't fall into the trap of waiting for them to be gone tomorrow, becaue tomororw never comes. breath into the feelings, and experiences them. accept them for what they are. Accept YOU for who you are. you will always be changing, always be growing and learning. you will never ever GET THERE becasue there is no THERE. there is only HERE, and there is only NOW.

Acceptance is key. Breath deeply, accept who you are and how you feel.
Oh. Well, I'm not having much trouble with accepting myself anymore, so I guess that I don't have teen angst. lol

I actually think I'm hot **** :)
 

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Ditto both of Vice's posts ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vice said:
Thank God that my brain is still in the developmental stages, so once I mature I won't have as many problems "re-wiring" my social and mental behavior like you older guys.
gee thanks :p
 
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