"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This situation just seems a little odd to me...

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So I made plans last night to take a girl I've been seeing for a couple weeks out to dinner tonight for her birthday.

At about noon today she texts me saying: "Ah I decided Id rather just go to a movie tonight with u"

I didn't reply and about thirty minutes later she texted me again saying: "Mm its up to you tho"

I don't know why she wouldn't want to go to dinner with me and it's bothering me a little bit. I really don't want to be a **** and drag her to dinner when she isn't really interested. And I don't want to see a movie because we saw one together on friday, i have no clue why she would want to see another one two days later. Hell, i don't even know how to respond to this...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Its her bday, take her to the god damm movie and quit over analyzing everything. Who ever said women behave rationally? Why are you expecting her to behave rationally?

Just be glad she's not bailing on you to hang with her friends or swinging on another branch.
 
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Have you made a move yet? Because, that's probably what she's waiting for.
 
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Stéphane said:
Have you made a move yet? Because, that's probably what she's waiting for.
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lol, I've made plenty of moves and nearly all of them have been well received.

MacAvoy said:
Its her bday, take her to the god damm movie and quit over analyzing everything. Who ever said women behave rationally? Why are you expecting her to behave rationally?

Just be glad she's not bailing on you to hang with her friends or swinging on another branch.
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It's not the fact that she changed the plans, but that she wants to see a movie again, two days after we just saw one. I'm almost picking up a vibe that she is trying to get out of hanging out at all tonight...
 
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do waht she said

forget dinner, take her to see a movie.

if anything be happy shes not making u take her to dinner too. some girls are dinner wh0res and just try to get free dinners

this shows she doesnt expect a lot from you
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Blackhole105 said:
It's not the fact that she changed the plans, but that she wants to see a movie again, two days after we just saw one. ...
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Oh no, she wants to see 2 movies in the same week, OH NO the world is ending, she's gonna leave me ....
 
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MacAvoy said:
Oh no, she wants to see 2 movies in the same week, OH NO the world is ending, she's gonna leave me ....
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eh, you're probably right, I'm overanalysing. I'll go tonight and see what happens
 
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perhaps she likes to keep low key on her birthday without any waiter coming over to sing some lame happy birthday song.
she really seems to have high interest, as she is getting in touch with you now trying to go cuddle up at a movie.
let us know how it goes:)
 
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