This situation just seems a little odd to me...

[Blackhole105]

So I made plans last night to take a girl I've been seeing for a couple weeks out to dinner tonight for her birthday.

At about noon today she texts me saying: "Ah I decided Id rather just go to a movie tonight with u"

I didn't reply and about thirty minutes later she texted me again saying: "Mm its up to you tho"

I don't know why she wouldn't want to go to dinner with me and it's bothering me a little bit. I really don't want to be a **** and drag her to dinner when she isn't really interested. And I don't want to see a movie because we saw one together on friday, i have no clue why she would want to see another one two days later. Hell, i don't even know how to respond to this...

 

[MacAvoy]

Its her bday, take her to the god damm movie and quit over analyzing everything. Who ever said women behave rationally? Why are you expecting her to behave rationally?

Just be glad she's not bailing on you to hang with her friends or swinging on another branch.

 

[Stéphane]

Have you made a move yet? Because, that's probably what she's waiting for.

 

[Blackhole105]

Have you made a move yet? Because, that's probably what she's waiting for.

lol, I've made plenty of moves and nearly all of them have been well received.

Its her bday, take her to the god damm movie and quit over analyzing everything. Who ever said women behave rationally? Why are you expecting her to behave rationally?

Just be glad she's not bailing on you to hang with her friends or swinging on another branch.

It's not the fact that she changed the plans, but that she wants to see a movie again, two days after we just saw one. I'm almost picking up a vibe that she is trying to get out of hanging out at all tonight...

 

[CORVETTE06]

do waht she said

forget dinner, take her to see a movie.

if anything be happy shes not making u take her to dinner too. some girls are dinner wh0res and just try to get free dinners

this shows she doesnt expect a lot from you

 

[MacAvoy]

It's not the fact that she changed the plans, but that she wants to see a movie again, two days after we just saw one. ...

Oh no, she wants to see 2 movies in the same week, OH NO the world is ending, she's gonna leave me ....

 

[Blackhole105]

Oh no, she wants to see 2 movies in the same week, OH NO the world is ending, she's gonna leave me ....

eh, you're probably right, I'm overanalysing. I'll go tonight and see what happens

 

[penkitten]

perhaps she likes to keep low key on her birthday without any waiter coming over to sing some lame happy birthday song.
she really seems to have high interest, as she is getting in touch with you now trying to go cuddle up at a movie.
let us know how it goes