Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If it was a ban, how could you be typing this? Perhaps you should call your ISP and ask them to come check your lines...Originally posted by Rad
If it was a personal ban, I'd like to know why.
This happens sometimes. It wasn't a problem with the site, it was a problem with your computer. It's caused by what we industry professionals call "Packet Leakage." Somewhere along the cable that connects your modem to the phone line or the cable/satellite connection, there is a leak in the cable. And the packets are leaking out. What you need to do is to tightly wrap duct tape all around the cable, which will fix the leak and prevent the packets from getting out.Originally posted by Rad
Since September 17th I couldn't access the forum. I could access the site but not forum. Is this the case with some people or is it a personal ban on my case? If it was a personal ban, I'd like to know why. Thanks
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Glad to be of assistance.Originally posted by Rad
Geez the sarcasm bug seems to have bitten everyone.
sounds like the escpaed packets have got in to your brainOriginally posted by Giovanni Casanova
This happens sometimes. It wasn't a problem with the site, it was a problem with your computer. It's caused by what we industry professionals call "Packet Leakage." Somewhere along the cable that connects your modem to the phone line or the cable/satellite connection, there is a leak in the cable. And the packets are leaking out. What you need to do is to tightly wrap duct tape all around the cable, which will fix the leak and prevent the packets from getting out.
Then, update all of your Favorites to reflect sosuave.NET instead of sosuave.COM.
That should fix your problems.
IMPORTANT: Make sure you fix the Packet Leakage BEFORE you update your favorites/bookmarks or else your computer could blow up.
I liked Gio's reply better.Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
sounds like the escpaed packets have got in to your brain![]()
Originally posted by diablo
I liked Gio's reply better.![]()