"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Since September 17th I couldn't access the forum. I could access the site but not forum. Is this the case with some people or is it a personal ban on my case? If it was a personal ban, I'd like to know why. Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Rad
If it was a personal ban, I'd like to know why.
If it was a ban, how could you be typing this? Perhaps you should call your ISP and ask them to come check your lines... :rolleyes:
 

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The website goes down from time to time. Get used to it :(
 

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Originally posted by Rad
Since September 17th I couldn't access the forum. I could access the site but not forum. Is this the case with some people or is it a personal ban on my case? If it was a personal ban, I'd like to know why. Thanks
This happens sometimes. It wasn't a problem with the site, it was a problem with your computer. It's caused by what we industry professionals call "Packet Leakage." Somewhere along the cable that connects your modem to the phone line or the cable/satellite connection, there is a leak in the cable. And the packets are leaking out. What you need to do is to tightly wrap duct tape all around the cable, which will fix the leak and prevent the packets from getting out.

Then, update all of your Favorites to reflect sosuave.NET instead of sosuave.COM.

That should fix your problems.

IMPORTANT: Make sure you fix the Packet Leakage BEFORE you update your favorites/bookmarks or else your computer could blow up.
 

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Re: Re: This site wasn't working for me till today

Geez the sarcasm bug seems to have bitten everyone. Well whatever, I'm glad to be back.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Re: Re: Re: This site wasn't working for me till today

Originally posted by Rad
Geez the sarcasm bug seems to have bitten everyone.
Glad to be of assistance.
 

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Re: Re: This site wasn't working for me till today

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
This happens sometimes. It wasn't a problem with the site, it was a problem with your computer. It's caused by what we industry professionals call "Packet Leakage." Somewhere along the cable that connects your modem to the phone line or the cable/satellite connection, there is a leak in the cable. And the packets are leaking out. What you need to do is to tightly wrap duct tape all around the cable, which will fix the leak and prevent the packets from getting out.

Then, update all of your Favorites to reflect sosuave.NET instead of sosuave.COM.

That should fix your problems.

IMPORTANT: Make sure you fix the Packet Leakage BEFORE you update your favorites/bookmarks or else your computer could blow up.
sounds like the escpaed packets have got in to your brain:p
 

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Re: Re: Re: This site wasn't working for me till today

Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
sounds like the escpaed packets have got in to your brain:p
I liked Gio's reply better. :rolleyes:
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: This site wasn't working for me till today

Originally posted by diablo
I liked Gio's reply better. :rolleyes:
 
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