"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
This site wasn't working for me till today
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
diablo
Master Don Juan
If it was a ban, how could you be typing this? Perhaps you should call your ISP and ask them to come check your lines...
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
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- Jan 5, 2002
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This happens sometimes. It wasn't a problem with the site, it was a problem with your computer. It's caused by what we industry professionals call "Packet Leakage." Somewhere along the cable that connects your modem to the phone line or the cable/satellite connection, there is a leak in the cable. And the packets are leaking out. What you need to do is to tightly wrap duct tape all around the cable, which will fix the leak and prevent the packets from getting out.
Then, update all of your Favorites to reflect sosuave.NET instead of sosuave.COM.
That should fix your problems.
IMPORTANT: Make sure you fix the Packet Leakage BEFORE you update your favorites/bookmarks or else your computer could blow up.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2002
- Messages
- 5,550
- Reaction score
- 18
- Age
- 47
- Location
- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
Glad to be of assistance.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
sounds like the escpaed packets have got in to your brain
diablo
Master Don Juan
I liked Gio's reply better.Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
sounds like the escpaed packets have got in to your brain