Ringleader41
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Im a mess now and I over think more shvt and its driving me crazy
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
This site phvcked me up
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
foreverAFC
Master Don Juan
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this site kicked my nihilism into overdrive.
JohnChops
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thats what happens when you first start out. If you overanalyze then stop doing it . Fvck over thinking just dont do it
thechallenger
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why oh why didnt i take the blue pill
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
the blue pill is for pussies lol
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Not cynical enough. You reach a point where you don't even give a fvck anymore and it's fantastic. I feel so good and so positive.foreverAFC said:
You kind of go full circle. Hard to explain.
Well if you took the blue pill, you would be dependent on the other blue pill with your ugly ass ho gf/wife/whatever.thechallenger said:
thechallenger
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wouldnt have it any other way!
Scars
Master Don Juan
The red pill will drive you nuts until you reach enlightenment. It's not an easy road either.
As for OP, it happens. I've had to take many breaks from this site and PUA in general. To be honest, that's where I learned most of my lessons. I made mistakes, but I learned from them. The PUA community offers a lot of advice, but don't take everything too seriously. Do what feels comfortable, and if you fail, realize what you did wrong and try a few things out until you get it right. Not all of us men are the same, and not all woman are the same. There really are no defined rules. The only one rule I'd say is definite is be a man. That means not taking any sh!t, and doing what you want. And yes, by doing what you want sometimes means breaking the rules. Don't let this site drive you nuts. The information can be overwhelming at times, but we're all learning. I'm not Buddhist or metaphysical at all, but I like the analogy. We're all working to reach the same place, but we all have different roads to get there. Find and develop your own style, it only happens through trial and error. Not trying to add any more pressure on you, but it's a must. Don't think so much, even if it means making a few mistakes and breaking some rules. It's a lot better to think about "what did I do wrong?" then it is to think about "why didn't I even make a move?". Feel me?
-Scars
As for OP, it happens. I've had to take many breaks from this site and PUA in general. To be honest, that's where I learned most of my lessons. I made mistakes, but I learned from them. The PUA community offers a lot of advice, but don't take everything too seriously. Do what feels comfortable, and if you fail, realize what you did wrong and try a few things out until you get it right. Not all of us men are the same, and not all woman are the same. There really are no defined rules. The only one rule I'd say is definite is be a man. That means not taking any sh!t, and doing what you want. And yes, by doing what you want sometimes means breaking the rules. Don't let this site drive you nuts. The information can be overwhelming at times, but we're all learning. I'm not Buddhist or metaphysical at all, but I like the analogy. We're all working to reach the same place, but we all have different roads to get there. Find and develop your own style, it only happens through trial and error. Not trying to add any more pressure on you, but it's a must. Don't think so much, even if it means making a few mistakes and breaking some rules. It's a lot better to think about "what did I do wrong?" then it is to think about "why didn't I even make a move?". Feel me?
-Scars