"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This site only for white people?

penkitten

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heh, they dont even discriminate on which gender you are here :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MackJr

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Originally posted by Alpine
I see a lot of threads about 'pimpin ma wheels' and bling bling snoopdoggyidiot v (insert some black boxers name) in da hud.

So I assume there are quite a lot of black guys on here but I haven't got a clue what they are saying.:rolleyes:
There might be one or two brothers writing in dialect, (silly young high schoolers trying to be 'fly') and the rest of us type in standard English, so there's no way you'd know unless it's mentioned.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by bfl
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But i was just curious, although the few times ive remembered to used this techniques they have worked most of the time.
So I'm curious, what were you doing that seemed as if it were geared for white people?
 

InsidiousNstinct

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Hmmm...since theres blacks and caucasins on the board I better speak so that everyone can understand me....



-Gangsta wanna be InsidiousNstinct-

I'm a gangsta...I got bling bling...*holds out off brand gold watch* I wear my timbs in the summertime so what *holds out arms*I come from the mean streets of Tennessee! That's right foo you betta recon'ize. This site is off the heezy fa sheezy so you best belieeee me. This site shows you how to be mack daddy and how to keep that pimp hand strong. *barks like a dog* yeaaaaaaah boi!


-Proper InsidiousNstinct-

On behalf of all young black americans...I believe this site teaches great fundamentals. Not only does it teach us young brothers how to communicate with women it also teaches us how to be properly civilized around women. Remember men....no booty slaping, no t*tty grabbing. After all we are all gentlemen here......:p

My name is InsidiousNstinct, and I approve this website.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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California Love

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Sure, there is definitely fine-tuning depending on which races you are attracted to. Still, most of the major concepts are generic and applicable among all females. From the basics on, experience with various ethnicities teaches the most.
 

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Originally posted by Alpine
I see a lot of threads about 'pimpin ma wheels' and bling bling snoopdoggyidiot v (insert some black boxers name) in da hud.

So I assume there are quite a lot of black guys on here but I haven't got a clue what they are saying.:rolleyes:

I don't think blacks write all of the car and rap threads. So please don't n"assume" they did.

Maybe you don't have a clue of what they are saying, because you are from the uk and not america!
 

So Many Ways

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Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Nah....There were a couple that had no flaming in them, and the discussion was good cause people were asking questions and they were getting answered, and then they got closed...All well, aint nothing....
Exactly. There was one thread in particular I remember that got closed called "Black DJ's". It was a good thread but it got locked for some reason.

The fundamentals of this site work for anyone, but you will need to do some tweaking here and there.

I think a lot of Player_Supreme's posts work real well for black guys, I've used them to some success. Do a search and you'll find them.

F*ck it, here's a link here.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59989
 

SamePendo

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The majority of people here are "white" and live in the U.S. I don't blame anyone for getting the impression of this site being for these group of people, because it is reigned by this group of people. Some things, tips, etc, don't apply. Yet, the mindset of a DJ is the same.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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