“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This plays with my soul

Tookie

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This story begans at a nice little college club, which a girl from my dorm said she was going to meet me at there. She did we began to talk, I then tried to get her in my car but it didn't work at all. So I decided to settle on a couple of dances but when I tried dancing with her we dance for a half the song then she walked away, while smiling at me. It makes me question myself because this was suppose to be some guarantee sex because honestly I felt I was better then her. I lowered my standards for this chick and this girl rejects me, it is just playing with my soul right now. Seriously I can't get this out of my head, she isn't a ugly duckling, infact quite cute but I feel cuter.

Now I'm not posting to be crying or anything,personally I just would like to know, has anything like this happens to you all, or was this just another rejection that didn't bother you much.
 

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Quit feeling sorry for the chick. Its not your problem shes an idiot. Or figure out how you fvcked up, cuz you probably did.
 

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Tookie said:
This story begans at a nice little college club, which a girl from my dorm said she was going to meet me at there. She did we began to talk, I then tried to get her in my car but it didn't work at all. So I decided to settle on a couple of dances but when I tried dancing with her we dance for a half the song then she walked away, while smiling at me. It makes me question myself because this was suppose to be some guarantee sex because honestly I felt I was better then her. I lowered my standards for this chick and this girl rejects me, it is just playing with my soul right now. Seriously I can't get this out of my head, she isn't a ugly duckling, infact quite cute but I feel cuter.

Now I'm not posting to be crying or anything,personally I just would like to know, has anything like this happens to you all, or was this just another rejection that didn't bother you much.
You were played.

You're identity wasn't strong enough, you didn't portray high value. She might have been interested at the start, but you are just another notch in her belt.

woods said:
Quit feeling sorry for the chick. Its not your problem shes an idiot. Or figure out how you fvcked up, cuz you probably did.
What kind of advice is that? You contradict what you say in the same sentence. "It's not your problem, she's an idiot", "Figure out how you fvcked up, cuz you probably did".

If you don't know what you are talking about, don't speak. This site has become ridiculous.
 

DJDamage

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Tookie said:
it is just playing with my soul right now
playing with your soul? where did you hear that garbage? I would lose that.

You got rejected that's it. It don't matter how much you think you are better then this girl, you still got rejected. Move on and don't try to make a big deal out of it.
 

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You "feel cute?" and This incident is "playing with your soul?"

I think she was just finished experimenting with her sexuality. Turns out she is NOT a lezzy. Seriously though I think you need to stop watching the gilmore girls.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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