"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This plays with my soul

Tookie

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This story begans at a nice little college club, which a girl from my dorm said she was going to meet me at there. She did we began to talk, I then tried to get her in my car but it didn't work at all. So I decided to settle on a couple of dances but when I tried dancing with her we dance for a half the song then she walked away, while smiling at me. It makes me question myself because this was suppose to be some guarantee sex because honestly I felt I was better then her. I lowered my standards for this chick and this girl rejects me, it is just playing with my soul right now. Seriously I can't get this out of my head, she isn't a ugly duckling, infact quite cute but I feel cuter.

Now I'm not posting to be crying or anything,personally I just would like to know, has anything like this happens to you all, or was this just another rejection that didn't bother you much.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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woods

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Quit feeling sorry for the chick. Its not your problem shes an idiot. Or figure out how you fvcked up, cuz you probably did.
 

Lust

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Tookie said:
This story begans at a nice little college club, which a girl from my dorm said she was going to meet me at there. She did we began to talk, I then tried to get her in my car but it didn't work at all. So I decided to settle on a couple of dances but when I tried dancing with her we dance for a half the song then she walked away, while smiling at me. It makes me question myself because this was suppose to be some guarantee sex because honestly I felt I was better then her. I lowered my standards for this chick and this girl rejects me, it is just playing with my soul right now. Seriously I can't get this out of my head, she isn't a ugly duckling, infact quite cute but I feel cuter.

Now I'm not posting to be crying or anything,personally I just would like to know, has anything like this happens to you all, or was this just another rejection that didn't bother you much.
You were played.

You're identity wasn't strong enough, you didn't portray high value. She might have been interested at the start, but you are just another notch in her belt.

woods said:
Quit feeling sorry for the chick. Its not your problem shes an idiot. Or figure out how you fvcked up, cuz you probably did.
What kind of advice is that? You contradict what you say in the same sentence. "It's not your problem, she's an idiot", "Figure out how you fvcked up, cuz you probably did".

If you don't know what you are talking about, don't speak. This site has become ridiculous.
 

DJDamage

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Tookie said:
it is just playing with my soul right now
playing with your soul? where did you hear that garbage? I would lose that.

You got rejected that's it. It don't matter how much you think you are better then this girl, you still got rejected. Move on and don't try to make a big deal out of it.
 

SharinganUser

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You "feel cute?" and This incident is "playing with your soul?"

I think she was just finished experimenting with her sexuality. Turns out she is NOT a lezzy. Seriously though I think you need to stop watching the gilmore girls.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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