Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
This place is turning into Sl*tHate & MGOTW cesspool...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The majority of the time you're still agreeing with those posters who are writing about self hate and hating women. You're helping this forum to stay negative.Mauser96 said:
I would like to see that as well, but you're agreeing with the negative woman hating turn that makes this forum negative.Mauser96 said:
Isn't how this this forum is supposed to work?Mauser96 said:
I haven't seen one person write a thread saying that women are not manipulative. We have a duty to recognize that, but not the constant hate threads that discourage men from their goals.Mauser96 said:
No it isn't, but you call men betas for having a girlfriend who aren't worshipping them. You write self hating and woman hating threads that people here are getting tired of.Poon King said:
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OMG wow just wow I'm so fvcking triggered right now.Octogonal said:
We put some negative in your negative so you can be negative while you're negativing.Octogonal said:
Probably because we don't have an abundance of gamma faggots or chicks pretending to men here? I wonder if in a parallel universe there's a guy pretending to be a girl over at the muffington post forum demanding someone write a thread saying that men are not hairier than women? :crazy:Octogonal said:
Do we? Wouldn't that be a form of "cishet patriarchal mansplaining"?Octogonal said:
I cant believe some dipsh!t took the time to write this mess. This is exactly what I'm talking about with the negative hate. If you don't think a certain way, they will shame you in the forum. Frankly, I'm getting tired of this and so are a lot of others.( . )( . ) said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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yeah man n dont forget bout the dudes who's postin politics n race sh@t all the time n anything else.LondonTowers said:
yeah man i leant when ( . )( . ) brings out his pink crayons ur doin sumthin rite cuz he gets so pissed off lol. i mean this dude has been n here talkin sh@t since when? 2002? who has all that fu@kin time to rite that sh@t all day n here if ur a successful dude? lol y aint he out tearin sh@t up fu@kin women n bein successful? he runs rampant n here postin sh@t like that to u that benefits no one. i mean lets get this sh@t done rite n start helpin dudes out whos lookin for the help they need n not make em feel like sh@t cuz they wanna learn n them other dudes wanna talk sh@t to u.Octogonal said:
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Swallowman taking a break from posting group selfies with sweaty white club cougars and good looking white couples to prove his club e-cred gayme and hating on the "white debbil" on various forums (it's complicated) to bring his unique bit of bix nood to the poz on one of his 13 different accounts.backbeat said:
This thread delivers
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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What you have to realize is that a lot of people here will argue with you if your opinion doesn't match their own....... Granted, it's like that everywhere. But the reason why here it's much more prominent is becauseOctogonal said:
1. It's the internet. These people wouldn't dare say that to your face :crackup:
2. They haven't been able to fix that sensitive over-inflated ego because they haven't been able to change themselves. Which reminds me, I should do a thread regarding that topic....
Now what I find funny is that those here will complain about how manipulative 'BPDs' are, and just women on the grand scale, when they themselves are manipulative. Think about it! The name calling, twisting of words around, assumptions, I mean shoot, some people will purposefully word their posts in such a way that causes some readers to make wrong assumptions about the the original poster just to get into an argument to prove the other person wrong. And whether these people know it or not, it is meant to satisfy their ego and to prove themselves right by proving others wrong because they are arrogant.
Stupid!
As for the negative posts here, those of you who know that your posts may be interpreted in a negative light should not post it at all. Study the Law of Attraction; it's real. If you promote negative thoughts in people, those negative thoughts will become a way of life. Thus, you will have negative results. Only post personal encounters with such manipulative women that you yourself have had. Don't exaggerate stories or anything, say it for how it is, no extra details how much it screwed you up, holding women in a more negative light.
Oh and one more thing I realized, people just like to complain. They don't want to act because it uses up more energy than keyboard jockeying or b!tching, and we as biological organisms strive to conserve as much energy as possible. No worries though, evolution will rid of those individuals. :cheer:
i dont see y they cant b here if they aint all negative n postin sh@t. i mean if they can add sum good stuff y not? yea man but the negative sh@t needs to go n dont no y them dudes still able to be postin that hate sh@t here. makes dudes more angry n sh@t n thats not good. i get that not every dude wants a relatnioship i no that cuz at times i dont but dont go hatin on sum dude cuz thats his goal. help the dude get the woman is wut im sayin not callin him sum beta or sum stupid @ss sh@t like that cuz that helps no one .no wut im sayin?Dhoulmagus said:
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If we're going to ban anything here, typing like a 14-year old ^^^ should be top of the list.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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The only reason you'd end up hating women is because you care about them.
A lot of girls turn me down and go for white guys, but I dont hate them. Why would I? I have a pretty damn good life and I control my future.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.