"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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this may seem odd, but i need some help

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I was google searching something and I got this website, and although I am a girl and I realize this is a guy's forum, I figured you all might still be able to help me out. And if you want to ask me something, I'll definately give you my honest opinion.

My problem- I'm dating a 21 year old and he's really into me, we've been together for 6 months and he's great. The only thing is, he hasn't sealed the deal yet and had sex with me, and it's so frustrating to me because I'm doing everything I can to get him to want to. He knows I want to, he's just too scared to make the move I guess.
It might have to do with my big mouth telling him about all the guys I was with last summer, but I'm not a slut, I was just having fun with random hook ups after being with an ******* for 3 years.
I don't know, I just want to know ways to get him in the mood, and ways to boost his confidence so that he won't have to worry about being bad in bed. I'm just ready for some action, some girls don't like to admit it but hey, I don't care.

Suggestions? Or am I just being dumb and maybe he just doesn't find me attractive?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sotellme_19, give me a call, I'll help you out.
 
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i bet you would, and believe me i feel so dumb resorting to a forum to try and get my man to have sex with me. it's probably a bad plan, just thought it couldn't hurt to try and get some eyesight from other guys who may have the same problem approaching sex.
 
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sotellme_19, a guy who doesn't want sex has serious issues. It's not you.
 
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it's not that he's not up for it, he's intimidated by my track record i guess.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why cant u make the move? After yall finish up, tell him that you really enjoyed it and that normally you leave it up to the guy to initiate things and that you wont be doing it again if he dosent.
 
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that's actually a good idea. i mean i shouldnt be surprised about having to make the first move, because i have pretty much the entire relationship which makes me wonder sometimes if he's really into me or just so shy. i was hoping i wouldnt have to but i guess it's not so bad, at least i'll get what i want and im sure he won't complain.
 
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dannyegg4575 said:
sotellme_19, give me a call, I'll help you out.
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You're a dumbass.

I'm with Scott's idea.
 
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yeah i think scott is a smart guy, although i dont know what im going to do if i get rejected. i guess i'll deal with that when and if it happens.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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