this may seem odd, but i need some help

[sotellme_19]

I was google searching something and I got this website, and although I am a girl and I realize this is a guy's forum, I figured you all might still be able to help me out. And if you want to ask me something, I'll definately give you my honest opinion.

My problem- I'm dating a 21 year old and he's really into me, we've been together for 6 months and he's great. The only thing is, he hasn't sealed the deal yet and had sex with me, and it's so frustrating to me because I'm doing everything I can to get him to want to. He knows I want to, he's just too scared to make the move I guess.
It might have to do with my big mouth telling him about all the guys I was with last summer, but I'm not a slut, I was just having fun with random hook ups after being with an ******* for 3 years.
I don't know, I just want to know ways to get him in the mood, and ways to boost his confidence so that he won't have to worry about being bad in bed. I'm just ready for some action, some girls don't like to admit it but hey, I don't care.

Suggestions? Or am I just being dumb and maybe he just doesn't find me attractive?

 

[dannyegg4575]

sotellme_19, give me a call, I'll help you out.

 

[sotellme_19]

i bet you would, and believe me i feel so dumb resorting to a forum to try and get my man to have sex with me. it's probably a bad plan, just thought it couldn't hurt to try and get some eyesight from other guys who may have the same problem approaching sex.

 

[dannyegg4575]

sotellme_19, a guy who doesn't want sex has serious issues. It's not you.

 

[sotellme_19]

it's not that he's not up for it, he's intimidated by my track record i guess.

 

[chance]

maybe he is gay.

 

[scottfall]

Why cant u make the move? After yall finish up, tell him that you really enjoyed it and that normally you leave it up to the guy to initiate things and that you wont be doing it again if he dosent.

 

[sotellme_19]

that's actually a good idea. i mean i shouldnt be surprised about having to make the first move, because i have pretty much the entire relationship which makes me wonder sometimes if he's really into me or just so shy. i was hoping i wouldnt have to but i guess it's not so bad, at least i'll get what i want and im sure he won't complain.

 

[TheEdgeOf]

sotellme_19, give me a call, I'll help you out.

You're a dumbass.

I'm with Scott's idea.

 

[sotellme_19]

yeah i think scott is a smart guy, although i dont know what im going to do if i get rejected. i guess i'll deal with that when and if it happens.