This may be kidish but I need help

[Tookie]

Sup fellas. I have been a strugglin AFC for some time now, and like a strugglin AFC, I am surrounded by other AFCs as well. The guys I'm surrouned by are AFC's to the max one has never had a girlfriend yet has supper high standard. Another one, the one who gets the most girls, only lands them because of his looks but quickly scares them off cause of his personality.

Their straight up losers, (even though with my resume I shouldn't judge) but I'm trying to change my life. These guys have no drive whatsoever being on and off foodstamps, a couple go to college with me and all we do is stay in each other's room. I've tried to get them to go out but they don't want to which makes me not want too.

So I want to cut them off and just not talk to them anymore, I still like acouple of them but I don't want to be held back. But it's hard starting all over at college again; eating by yourself, trying to find parties by yourself and showing up to them by yourself. I"m not the best person at making friends for some reason. I'm not an *******, but most people usually bore me even these guys I've been around been boring me for the last year or so. I want to find a group of Dj's or just some more social guys.

So is there an advice on how to go about that or on my situation?

 

[muscleman]

Read the DJB. Find something (social) you're interested in. You'll find people and can network there. Myspace also works wonders for meeting new people if you do it right.

 

[Gustav Yavo]

lol, how are they holding YOU back. it sounds like you are blaming them for your girl pick up problems. Everyone is in charge of themself, you think if you just change your friends your automatically just gonna get more poon? WRONG! its what you do. Plus i dont think you should just ditch your friends, they may be boring you now, but you are calling them FRIENDS for a reason, so they cant be all bad. Trust me, picking up girls is all about YOU, having more social friends or better looking, or dj friends will prolly just get in your way of becoming a dj, cause they will be the ones picking up the girls while you have your **** in you hand (although if very observant it might help you, but you dont have to have dj friends to observe dj's). Read the forums, learn the techniques and apply them in real life, its the only way to learn, dont rely on other people as a crutch.

happy hunting!

 

[muscleman]

To add to what Gustav said, friends in general aren't really necessary. I know a lot of people, but no one that I hang out with on a regular basis. It would get boring, at least for me. It's also an issue of time - would you rather be out getting drunk with a bunch of dudes or (which is cool sometimes, I agree) or bonin some hb you just met?

 

[Leporello]

Join some clubs or other college groups.

 

[Tookie]

Thanks. Your right I think I am shifting blame, even if it is just a little bit I need to refocus. Becoming a DJ is a path I must walk alone I assume.

 

[Interceptor]

Took,
how old are you. and what are your goals in life?

have you formulated and written out your Mission in life yet?

What are you doing daily to improve and build a better life for yourself?