Korrupt
Banned
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=74874931&frommsg=1&msgid=59312025402
Why do we have to deal with this
Why do we have to deal with this
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This is "WOMAN"
- Thread starter Korrupt
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 15, 2004
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I've seen lots of profiles like this, and they still get lots of AFCs messaging them and kissing their ass. I think women like this on OLD just like to act like bytches and see what kind of drama they can create for kicks. They've seen the vast sea of undesirable men, and now they're just in it for entertainment.
It's good to keep in mind a lot of them are just as sick of us and our sh!t as we are of them and their sh!t.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
I think many women know of the skewed power dynamic between men and women and enjoy seeing how much disrespectful and in some cases plain nasty behavior they can put out when interacting with AFCs and still have them groveling at their feet begging for crumbs, makes them both entertained and feel big inside. But at the same time they sub-/consciously don't see those guys as "men". I think the more unfulfilled the woman feels, the more of that kind of behavior she will put out to feel better about herself and her life, and a lack of what she perceives as "men" in her life will make a woman unfulfilled.
backseatjuan
Banned
She have sh1tty pictures, and only has 3. I wouldn't be wrong if she ends up being a little fatter than on photos.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
lizardking82
Master Don Juan
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Look at her eyes. She's already dead inside. Stay far, far away
logicallefty
Moderator
Our turn now:
- Ever cheated on a man, I don't want you
- Ever posted 2 x or more selfies on social media in 5 x days time, I don't want you
- Do your pictures on social media show more of your b00bs than your face, I don't want you
- Spend more than 1 x hour a day on social media, I don't want you
- Need gas money to come visit me, I don't want you
- Make more money in child support than income from job(s), I don't want you
- Been "abused" by a man but he was never tried and convicted in a court of law, I don't want you
- "All of your friends" are guys, I don't want you
- Are you in your crazy 30s, between the ages of 33 and 39, I don't want you
- Owe money for an online college degree that you never finished, I don't want you
- Want a man who loves you more than he loves himself, I don't want you
- Have something not listed here that you think a man with self respect wouldn't like, I don't want you
- Ever cheated on a man, I don't want you
- Ever posted 2 x or more selfies on social media in 5 x days time, I don't want you
- Do your pictures on social media show more of your b00bs than your face, I don't want you
- Spend more than 1 x hour a day on social media, I don't want you
- Need gas money to come visit me, I don't want you
- Make more money in child support than income from job(s), I don't want you
- Been "abused" by a man but he was never tried and convicted in a court of law, I don't want you
- "All of your friends" are guys, I don't want you
- Are you in your crazy 30s, between the ages of 33 and 39, I don't want you
- Owe money for an online college degree that you never finished, I don't want you
- Want a man who loves you more than he loves himself, I don't want you
- Have something not listed here that you think a man with self respect wouldn't like, I don't want you
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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- Nov 15, 2004
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- 11,680
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- 4,877
25 year old Female
wants to date but nothing serious
Longest Relationship: Over 3 years
These are the most important things to look at. She's too old and has been alpha-widowed by the guy she spent 3 years with.
Pets: Cat
The cat will multiply as she gets older
Do you want children?: Want children
I see a sperm donor in her future.
It's really sad to see these profiles. You can tell so much by reading between the lines. She's pretty, but the 3-year-guy sitting at the top of her High Score List has made it difficult for other men to be successful with her relationship-wise.
wants to date but nothing serious
Longest Relationship: Over 3 years
These are the most important things to look at. She's too old and has been alpha-widowed by the guy she spent 3 years with.
Pets: Cat
The cat will multiply as she gets older
Do you want children?: Want children
I see a sperm donor in her future.
It's really sad to see these profiles. You can tell so much by reading between the lines. She's pretty, but the 3-year-guy sitting at the top of her High Score List has made it difficult for other men to be successful with her relationship-wise.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
No worries... We don't have to deal with this, we need to laugh at it...http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=74874931&frommsg=1&msgid=59312025402
Why do we have to deal with this
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Gimple
Banned
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Am I the only one who sees nothing wrong with this chick's profile? In fact, I kind of like it. She knows what she wants, or rather what she doesn't want in a partner -- but sometimes those are almost the same thing. So I like that about her.
And so I didn't meet her criteria. So what? I now know not to waste my time, and hers. And I'm grateful she did me that favor.
It almost seems to me like all of you criticizing her feel the need to retaliate and "even the score" because she essentially rejected you personally without ever meeting you. Reminds me the guy who will shout "B1tch!" at every woman who blows him off. He takes rejection as an insult, and feels the need to try to lower the other person's value to in order to retain his perceived loss of dignity.
And so I didn't meet her criteria. So what? I now know not to waste my time, and hers. And I'm grateful she did me that favor.
It almost seems to me like all of you criticizing her feel the need to retaliate and "even the score" because she essentially rejected you personally without ever meeting you. Reminds me the guy who will shout "B1tch!" at every woman who blows him off. He takes rejection as an insult, and feels the need to try to lower the other person's value to in order to retain his perceived loss of dignity.