Korrupt
Banned
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=74874931&frommsg=1&msgid=59312025402
Why do we have to deal with this
Why do we have to deal with this
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This is "WOMAN"
- Thread starter Korrupt
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 15, 2004
- Messages
- 11,680
- Reaction score
- 4,877
I've seen lots of profiles like this, and they still get lots of AFCs messaging them and kissing their ass. I think women like this on OLD just like to act like bytches and see what kind of drama they can create for kicks. They've seen the vast sea of undesirable men, and now they're just in it for entertainment.
It's good to keep in mind a lot of them are just as sick of us and our sh!t as we are of them and their sh!t.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
I think many women know of the skewed power dynamic between men and women and enjoy seeing how much disrespectful and in some cases plain nasty behavior they can put out when interacting with AFCs and still have them groveling at their feet begging for crumbs, makes them both entertained and feel big inside. But at the same time they sub-/consciously don't see those guys as "men". I think the more unfulfilled the woman feels, the more of that kind of behavior she will put out to feel better about herself and her life, and a lack of what she perceives as "men" in her life will make a woman unfulfilled.
backseatjuan
Banned
She have sh1tty pictures, and only has 3. I wouldn't be wrong if she ends up being a little fatter than on photos.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lizardking82
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 8, 2016
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- 1,884
- Reaction score
- 1,546
Look at her eyes. She's already dead inside. Stay far, far away
logicallefty
Moderator
Our turn now:
- Ever cheated on a man, I don't want you
- Ever posted 2 x or more selfies on social media in 5 x days time, I don't want you
- Do your pictures on social media show more of your b00bs than your face, I don't want you
- Spend more than 1 x hour a day on social media, I don't want you
- Need gas money to come visit me, I don't want you
- Make more money in child support than income from job(s), I don't want you
- Been "abused" by a man but he was never tried and convicted in a court of law, I don't want you
- "All of your friends" are guys, I don't want you
- Are you in your crazy 30s, between the ages of 33 and 39, I don't want you
- Owe money for an online college degree that you never finished, I don't want you
- Want a man who loves you more than he loves himself, I don't want you
- Have something not listed here that you think a man with self respect wouldn't like, I don't want you
- Ever cheated on a man, I don't want you
- Ever posted 2 x or more selfies on social media in 5 x days time, I don't want you
- Do your pictures on social media show more of your b00bs than your face, I don't want you
- Spend more than 1 x hour a day on social media, I don't want you
- Need gas money to come visit me, I don't want you
- Make more money in child support than income from job(s), I don't want you
- Been "abused" by a man but he was never tried and convicted in a court of law, I don't want you
- "All of your friends" are guys, I don't want you
- Are you in your crazy 30s, between the ages of 33 and 39, I don't want you
- Owe money for an online college degree that you never finished, I don't want you
- Want a man who loves you more than he loves himself, I don't want you
- Have something not listed here that you think a man with self respect wouldn't like, I don't want you
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 15, 2004
- Messages
- 11,680
- Reaction score
- 4,877
25 year old Female
wants to date but nothing serious
Longest Relationship: Over 3 years
These are the most important things to look at. She's too old and has been alpha-widowed by the guy she spent 3 years with.
Pets: Cat
The cat will multiply as she gets older
Do you want children?: Want children
I see a sperm donor in her future.
It's really sad to see these profiles. You can tell so much by reading between the lines. She's pretty, but the 3-year-guy sitting at the top of her High Score List has made it difficult for other men to be successful with her relationship-wise.
wants to date but nothing serious
Longest Relationship: Over 3 years
These are the most important things to look at. She's too old and has been alpha-widowed by the guy she spent 3 years with.
Pets: Cat
The cat will multiply as she gets older
Do you want children?: Want children
I see a sperm donor in her future.
It's really sad to see these profiles. You can tell so much by reading between the lines. She's pretty, but the 3-year-guy sitting at the top of her High Score List has made it difficult for other men to be successful with her relationship-wise.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
No worries... We don't have to deal with this, we need to laugh at it...http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=74874931&frommsg=1&msgid=59312025402
Why do we have to deal with this
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Gimple
Banned
- Joined
- Nov 18, 2014
- Messages
- 171
- Reaction score
- 31
Am I the only one who sees nothing wrong with this chick's profile? In fact, I kind of like it. She knows what she wants, or rather what she doesn't want in a partner -- but sometimes those are almost the same thing. So I like that about her.
And so I didn't meet her criteria. So what? I now know not to waste my time, and hers. And I'm grateful she did me that favor.
It almost seems to me like all of you criticizing her feel the need to retaliate and "even the score" because she essentially rejected you personally without ever meeting you. Reminds me the guy who will shout "B1tch!" at every woman who blows him off. He takes rejection as an insult, and feels the need to try to lower the other person's value to in order to retain his perceived loss of dignity.
And so I didn't meet her criteria. So what? I now know not to waste my time, and hers. And I'm grateful she did me that favor.
It almost seems to me like all of you criticizing her feel the need to retaliate and "even the score" because she essentially rejected you personally without ever meeting you. Reminds me the guy who will shout "B1tch!" at every woman who blows him off. He takes rejection as an insult, and feels the need to try to lower the other person's value to in order to retain his perceived loss of dignity.