“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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This is why you always confirm plans before a date

Spaz

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OP you're been making similar threads for god knows how long, we're getting tired of reading the same old stories, how abt you make a thread on how you managed to at least fvck 1 woman and then we'll cheer you on with some good pointers?

Even if it's a hoe, just get it done.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GeeMale

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So I don't get it. Are you saying to text and make sure to confirm during the days that you didn't text her at all? Or to confirm on the day of? I've had situations like your post many times. What works for me is "Hey are you still down to go etc" I had more success with this than 'looking forwadd to seeing you tonight" idk why but just have I've used what you say few months ago and I got flaked on a couple times lol
 

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I had many fcloses in the past and never had to confirm with her that we are going out. I just show up and she shows up.
Nowadays I'm not sure how girls are reacting because I didn't have consistent number of dates as I had 2 years ago :'(
 

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I don't confirm spit. If it falls through, it falls through and I next. Confirming is kinda treating her like some prize.
 

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I stumbled across this article today and found it useful. If you're getting flaked on over and over then the problem is YOU, not the woman right?

So if a woman agrees to go on a date with you but then flakes at the last minute, 95% of the time it's because there's a weak connection between the two of you. You can talk to her longer, or calling on the phone/Facetiming would help you avoid some of that flakiness. Working on that connection will drastically drop your flake rate.

Models by Mark Manson has a really good section about this too. He uses a Two Strike Rule regarding flakes. He doesn't even bother getting a woman's number unless she seems interested and attracted lol.


@DEEZEDBRAH Seems like Mystery's 7 Hour Rule still applies to this day lol.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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