You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Impressive.backbreaker said:http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff85/strawberryroad/vacation/londonnightclub.jpg
far right. we took that last time we went to visit her parents and went out with some of her old friends.
backbreaker said:http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff85/strawberryroad/vacation/londonnightclub.jpg
far right. we took that last time we went to visit her parents and went out with some of her old friends.
Very cute....English right? And she likes race horses so that's a huge bonus.backbreaker said:http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff85/strawberryroad/vacation/londonnightclub.jpg
far right. we took that last time we went to visit her parents and went out with some of her old friends.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ease said:Impressive.
Its pretty positive to hear how happy you are with the fiancee. After failed relationships and mistakes, i often wonder how i will ever end up. On the surface i wish to live as an international playboy king, but deep down i would like to successfuly settle one day. Nice knowing that someone has done it after having their own failures!
backbreaker said:when i met her i was dating/seeing every bit of 4 women, probably 6 in all if you count the ones i was trying to get rid of. she just worked her way up the rotation lol. it's not like i met her and said okay everyone else leave. she earned it.
Thanks.....my little Asian hottie haha. That pic was in Vegas and she is without a doubt the best dresser I have ever been with. It's funny. I'm a white guy, decent to good looking and built pretty well. So you would think I wouldnt get this from other guys...but I do. You have no idea how many times we get "looks" when walking around Vegas from guys who I just KNOW are thinking that I am walking around with an Asian escort. :rockon:backbreaker said:she's is/was a jockey so yeah to say the least. loves horses and horse racing as much as I do.
that's nice cord. very nice.