She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Impressive.backbreaker said:http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff85/strawberryroad/vacation/londonnightclub.jpg
far right. we took that last time we went to visit her parents and went out with some of her old friends.
backbreaker said:http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff85/strawberryroad/vacation/londonnightclub.jpg
far right. we took that last time we went to visit her parents and went out with some of her old friends.
Very cute....English right? And she likes race horses so that's a huge bonus.backbreaker said:http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff85/strawberryroad/vacation/londonnightclub.jpg
far right. we took that last time we went to visit her parents and went out with some of her old friends.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ease said:Impressive.
Its pretty positive to hear how happy you are with the fiancee. After failed relationships and mistakes, i often wonder how i will ever end up. On the surface i wish to live as an international playboy king, but deep down i would like to successfuly settle one day. Nice knowing that someone has done it after having their own failures!
backbreaker said:when i met her i was dating/seeing every bit of 4 women, probably 6 in all if you count the ones i was trying to get rid of. she just worked her way up the rotation lol. it's not like i met her and said okay everyone else leave. she earned it.
Thanks.....my little Asian hottie haha. That pic was in Vegas and she is without a doubt the best dresser I have ever been with. It's funny. I'm a white guy, decent to good looking and built pretty well. So you would think I wouldnt get this from other guys...but I do. You have no idea how many times we get "looks" when walking around Vegas from guys who I just KNOW are thinking that I am walking around with an Asian escort. :rockon:backbreaker said:she's is/was a jockey so yeah to say the least. loves horses and horse racing as much as I do.
that's nice cord. very nice.