That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Impressive.backbreaker said:http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff85/strawberryroad/vacation/londonnightclub.jpg
far right. we took that last time we went to visit her parents and went out with some of her old friends.
backbreaker said:http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff85/strawberryroad/vacation/londonnightclub.jpg
far right. we took that last time we went to visit her parents and went out with some of her old friends.
Very cute....English right? And she likes race horses so that's a huge bonus.backbreaker said:http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff85/strawberryroad/vacation/londonnightclub.jpg
far right. we took that last time we went to visit her parents and went out with some of her old friends.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ease said:Impressive.
Its pretty positive to hear how happy you are with the fiancee. After failed relationships and mistakes, i often wonder how i will ever end up. On the surface i wish to live as an international playboy king, but deep down i would like to successfuly settle one day. Nice knowing that someone has done it after having their own failures!
backbreaker said:when i met her i was dating/seeing every bit of 4 women, probably 6 in all if you count the ones i was trying to get rid of. she just worked her way up the rotation lol. it's not like i met her and said okay everyone else leave. she earned it.
Thanks.....my little Asian hottie haha. That pic was in Vegas and she is without a doubt the best dresser I have ever been with. It's funny. I'm a white guy, decent to good looking and built pretty well. So you would think I wouldnt get this from other guys...but I do. You have no idea how many times we get "looks" when walking around Vegas from guys who I just KNOW are thinking that I am walking around with an Asian escort. :rockon:backbreaker said:she's is/was a jockey so yeah to say the least. loves horses and horse racing as much as I do.
that's nice cord. very nice.