"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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this is why i despise 99% of single mothers

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i had to share this with everyone, it just burns me up. it doesn't effect me one bit...well yeah it does, but i'll get to that in a sec. this girl i know, acctually we dated for about 3 months back in the day before i came to learn she was bat sh!t crazy and a hoe. anyways, this wh0re couldn't have this guy she liked, so the rumor is she got pregnant by him on purpose. i don't know if that's true or not, but i wouldn't put it past her. so she has the kid, and the guy denies that it's his yada yada yada. i can't blame him really, i wouldn't want to be stuck with this girl the rest of my life either. this girl use to be pretty dog gone hot, but now is a disgusting whale to put it gently. i honestly think she weighs 280 from the hoof. her belly hangs out of her shirt and her feet are so fat, they barely fit in her shoes. i get a little sick just by looking at her now. shes that fat! well today she dna came back and the dude is the father. her comment? "i finally got his ass. payday for me!". not one care about the kid, just worried about her monthly check she'll be getting for the next 18 years. oh and btw, this mother of the year only works one day a week as a waitress.lol she is about as good a mom as i am. my dog could do a better job raising this child i think. it constantly cries no matter what, always something wrong with the child. it stays sicks i think. i just couldn't beleive the comment she made to someone i know who told me. i wonder how many other single moms are out their having kids just to get a pay check? and they wonder why decent single guys don't want to waste their time with them....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Robert28 said:
i wonder how many other single moms are out their having kids just to get a pay check? and they wonder why decent single guys don't want to waste their time with them....
More than you think. But then again I try not to feel bad for guys that don't use condoms EVERY FRIGGIN TIME/DON'T PULL OUT, and that go out with trashy women that have mental issues. I only feel bad for the kids.
 

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On the issue of condoms, never use the girl's condoms. Always use your own condoms and never let her put it on for you, put that sh!t on yourself.
 

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:crackup: Mwahaha, You five ONE example of a bad single mom and now you think they're all like that. How bad with statistics are you? :confused:
 

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Guoy Darko said:
:crackup: Mwahaha, You five ONE example of a bad single mom and now you think they're all like that. How bad with statistics are you? :confused:

no, they pretty much all suck. this i know. keep fooling yourself if you wish and you'll be raising someone elses one night stand baby in no time.lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know a woman who has 3 kids by 3 different guys. She doesnt really know who the father of one of the kids really is! She doesnt get a "check" from any of them. So much for those female tactics. Backfire.
 

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You guys should just all become gay. :) Men are just perfect aren't they?
 

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Guoy Darko said:
You guys should just all become gay. :) Men are just perfect aren't they?

yep, we are:D
 

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1. when i was 21 i was banging this married chick who was a few years older than me. she was so ****ing bat **** crazy she was mad because i was dating other women. b!tch you are married! Anyway, one day she had this new "special" condom she wanted ot use one day... comes to find out she poked holes in it and got pregnant.

i had to go to her husband and explain what was going on and we both talked some sense into her


2. my little 23 year old cousin is going for the lifetime whoring award. 4 kids 4 baby daddies
 

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Guoy Darko said:
:crackup: Mwahaha, You five ONE example of a bad single mom and now you think they're all like that. How bad with statistics are you? :confused:
How worse are you with statistics? Don't you know exceptions don't invalidate a rule? With possible partial exception of widows, the overwhelmingly predominate rule is single mommies are single mommies because of inherent adversive character flaws, piss poor decision-making skills, with their own set of complications to deal with (inclusive of widows), or else they wouldn't be single mommies.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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single mothers aren't single mothers becuase of their pristine decision making skills.

i've seen single mothers make some of the most bat**** crazy decisions

you know now that i really think about it, feminism is a mofo. it really is.

I remember, back when I was deep into AA, there was a woman there that I really looked up to and I still do. Anyway she had made some mistakes in the past, had 3 kids but all of them were grown now and out the house. anyway, there was this chick who used to hang out with me all the time.. nothing was there at least from my end but we hung out she was my buddy.

She was what...3 years older than me, and was going to school to be an archaeologist, she had a kid and was a single mother, dad was a meth using loser... the older woman who i looked up to had been nudding me to try to develop "more of a friendship" (i.e date) this chick and while we never went on dates..we did go out to eat quite a few times after meetings and ****. anyway, i remember her telling me how you can't use "normal society standards to judge someone".. I had caused quite an uproar when I told them pretty bluntly that i would never consider dating a single mother even if I were single which I wasn't. why? Seriously why?

Truth be told, she had a bangin ass body, true thoroughbred in that department and she was a natural red head and becuase all the guys for the most part in the whole AA click wanted to get in her pants they would agree with it all, even pamper to her kid, tell her that hey it's okay that you are almost 30 with a kid and you will try to put that off on everyone else.


I remember one day we went out to eat after a meeting and she really was dancing around the issue of why "certain men she likes don't like her back".. i wanted to say babe do you really not know the answer?

Somehow she actually started to believe the crap that she was spewing. No you aren't on the same playing field as someone who is the same age and doesn't have kids. I'm sorry, that's why they make condoms, use them.

who you are and where you are is nothing but of a relection of the things you are done. You don't get a get out of *****ing free card just because you are half cute.

What I despise more than single mothers is the guys that put up with the **** single mothers spew out in the effort to get *****. it's no different than going to a drug house and pampering to the D-boy because he has the dope.
 

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The problem is going to be the kids. I'm pretty traditional on family matters and think nobody should have kids outside of marriage. I'm willing to grudgingly accept it if it's a case of a couple that is not married, but the father is still there and taking care of the kid. I at least accept it more than AWOL fathers.

As the saying goes, if you want to sell so much as a hot dog from a street cart, you need a license from the government. Yet any moron can have a kid.

There's a reason why like 95% of prison inmates grew up with no daddy around.
 

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There's a multitude of reasons why a women become single mothers. Some of them are manipulative bytches who will work the system in their favor. Others will have a failed relationship / marriage, some will have just 'gone with the flow' and let the man take the lead - even if he had no clue he was taking the lead. There are a few who've had their kids' fathers die.

You can't judge a single mother solely based on the fact that her kid(s) have no father. If you're going to date single mothers, use discretion.
 

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Desdinova said:
There's a multitude of reasons why a women become single mothers. Some of them are manipulative bytches who will work the system in their favor. Others will have a failed relationship / marriage, some will have just 'gone with the flow' and let the man take the lead - even if he had no clue he was taking the lead. There are a few who've had their kids' fathers die.

You can't judge a single mother solely based on the fact that her kid(s) have no father. If you're going to date single mothers, use discretion.
no one is talking about judging in the sense of are they good or bad people.e. we are talking about judging as far as viable dating options. fther getting killed in a car accident or not, women without kids are less baggage than single mothers.
 

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99% bull$hit, there's many an aszhole guy who bailed and made some kids momma a single mom! Stop the hating.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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backbreaker said:
no one is talking about judging in the sense of are they good or bad people.e. we are talking about judging as far as viable dating options. fther getting killed in a car accident or not, women without kids are less baggage than single mothers.
Not so, often they realise they arent an A1 proposition and are more accomodating.
 

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99% bull$hit, there's many an aszhole guy who bailed and made some kids momma a single mom! Stop the hating.

and that has to do with the mind games 99% of single mothers play because.....?
 

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anyways, this wh0re couldn't have this guy she liked, so the rumor is she got pregnant by him on purpose. i don't know if that's true or not.
You don't know anything about the situation between this couple. You stated that there was a rumour and that you didn't know if it was true or not. Then the DNA test showed that the guy was the father, and you posted that she's a wh0re.
 

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99% bull$hit, there's many an aszhole guy who bailed and made some kids momma a single mom! Stop the hating.
This still shows poor judgement on the women.
Just like a man marrying a low quality woman.

You would think a woman would really SCREEN a man before she had a kid with him.

Unfortunately, most women are not that smart.
If you play with a snake and you get bit, you're a dumba$$ and the snake is just a snake.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
If you play with a snake and you get bit, you're a dumba$$ and the snake is just a snake

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WTF does that mean? so your c0ck is now a snake and if she plays with your c0ck and it erm... bites her then it's her fault?

So if women put out then there wh0res and if they dont then there b1tches, and if by having sex they become pregnant then there wh0res who are b1tches that just got bitten by a snake and deserve it for not being pain in the asz screeners?????
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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