"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
this is why a DJ is in high demand!
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Happiness Renewed
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You shouldn't even care...
You know why?
Because you shouldn't have time to care.
And because it reeks of anger motivated by, what else, fear...
I don't think anybody here actually cares. We're just letting the pinky boys know that they look gay and unmanly. It's a fashion tip.Originally posted by whistler
You guys care about the color of some other guy's shirt?!
You shouldn't even care...
You know why?
Because you shouldn't have time to care.
And because it reeks of anger motivated by, what else, fear...
That's all
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
belividere
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Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
with the right suit, tie, etc...
... clown does not.
Unless you're a comedian or an underground musician or artist wearing it as a joke.
... still chuckling at the pic... and imagining what anyone will do with a pic looking like that 10 years time....
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
... if you have to resort to dressing like an unwashed auto mechanic just to impress a girl, your game is lacking. Some guys will wear a pink shirt over a wifebeater stained with engine oil any day of the week and still get laid. It's not what you wear, it's what's underneath it.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Why so much hating on metrosexuals....our own Senor Fingers was a strong ADVOCATE of metrosexuality and claimed to be one in one of his posts!!!! He is the greatest dj this site has ever seen (pook being the most inspirational). Being metrosexual simply means thats you are a heterosexual male who is concerned with fashion.......so f'ing what!!!! you can still desire going to the gym, taking up jujitsu, having sex with random girls, drinking beer, watching Rambo and be concerned with your appearance.
Now, for pink shirts. Pink is a color. That's all it is.
It all depends on how you wear it and the type of person you are while wearing it.
If you are an AFC wearing a pink shirt, you become a princess.
If you are a DJ wearing the same pink shirt, you are a DJ with style.
Hound_of_Love
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We've got people telling us that wearing a pink shirt, because girls will sleep with you, is lame? Yeah, you're probably right, but unless you strip the DJ Bible down to its bear essentials, everything on this site is about 'game' and ways to get girls into bed. I'd have thought that any weapon in your arsenal is viable. People will tell you that you have to dress nice and buff up - these are in no way different to wearing pink shirts (nor for that matter blue shirts/yellow shirts/green shirts) because girls like certain looks.
Having said that, I don't own a pink shirt.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
This thread is sooooooo effing funny!!
My thoughts exactly! If you're contented with yourself and your own style, there is absolutely no reason to hate other people for their tastes. Live and let live.
Personally I enjoy being a metrosexual not just to attract women, but I like the creativity and like taking pride in my appearance. I'm an artist, I've done some modelling, I have friends who are models and others who work in fashion, beauty therapy and photography and I have a big interest in the artistic side of fashion, grooming and enjoy experimenting with different looks.
Some people do think I'm gay or at least wonder, some people tease me about being gay, but it doesn't bother me in the slightest because I'm confident enough not to take this personally and I have confidence in my own tastes and judgement.
I would never dream of wearing the elaborate costume pictured in the article. Not because it looks gay, but because it's tasteless, it doesn't suit the guy, the colours are garish and the whole ensemble looks childish.
Also, as a side note: Survival is a different game in today's world and it's a sure bet that the well-presented, well-groomed males will go a lot further in society than the rugged macho men.
Please explain this and provide facts. If you don't then you are just talking out your ass. How is a guy who refuses to cross-dress or dress feminine insecure? Where the F-cuk are you getting that from? What f-ucking planet did you come from?
I would argue the exact opposite. In fact, it is the metros who are confused with their masculinity. They are afraid to be masculine because they believe that women won’t be attracted to them (ie they have purchased the feminizing horse s-hit that defines how to please a woman) Most metros are only metros because they are worried about looking good for the women. The problem with this is that it is submissive behavior. I’m not saying you can’t get ***** being metro. All I’m saying is that you are subjugating yourself for the women. That isn’t masculine behavior. You are a damn p-ussy and you are one step closer to sucking c-ock yourself.
I wouldn't wear a pink shirt for the same reason I wouldn't wear a bra. I'm not a female and I'm not confused with my sexuality. When I look down I see a **** and I use it to f-uk girls. I don’t need to wear a pink shirt to feel good about that.
TedJustAdmitIt
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What do you do?
Got any pics of your stuff?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.