"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
this is why a DJ is in high demand!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
You shouldn't even care...
You know why?
Because you shouldn't have time to care.
And because it reeks of anger motivated by, what else, fear...
I don't think anybody here actually cares. We're just letting the pinky boys know that they look gay and unmanly. It's a fashion tip.Originally posted by whistler
You guys care about the color of some other guy's shirt?!
You shouldn't even care...
You know why?
Because you shouldn't have time to care.
And because it reeks of anger motivated by, what else, fear...
That's all
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
belividere
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Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
with the right suit, tie, etc...
... clown does not.
Unless you're a comedian or an underground musician or artist wearing it as a joke.
... still chuckling at the pic... and imagining what anyone will do with a pic looking like that 10 years time....
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
... if you have to resort to dressing like an unwashed auto mechanic just to impress a girl, your game is lacking. Some guys will wear a pink shirt over a wifebeater stained with engine oil any day of the week and still get laid. It's not what you wear, it's what's underneath it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Why so much hating on metrosexuals....our own Senor Fingers was a strong ADVOCATE of metrosexuality and claimed to be one in one of his posts!!!! He is the greatest dj this site has ever seen (pook being the most inspirational). Being metrosexual simply means thats you are a heterosexual male who is concerned with fashion.......so f'ing what!!!! you can still desire going to the gym, taking up jujitsu, having sex with random girls, drinking beer, watching Rambo and be concerned with your appearance.
Now, for pink shirts. Pink is a color. That's all it is.
It all depends on how you wear it and the type of person you are while wearing it.
If you are an AFC wearing a pink shirt, you become a princess.
If you are a DJ wearing the same pink shirt, you are a DJ with style.
Hound_of_Love
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We've got people telling us that wearing a pink shirt, because girls will sleep with you, is lame? Yeah, you're probably right, but unless you strip the DJ Bible down to its bear essentials, everything on this site is about 'game' and ways to get girls into bed. I'd have thought that any weapon in your arsenal is viable. People will tell you that you have to dress nice and buff up - these are in no way different to wearing pink shirts (nor for that matter blue shirts/yellow shirts/green shirts) because girls like certain looks.
Having said that, I don't own a pink shirt.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
This thread is sooooooo effing funny!!
My thoughts exactly! If you're contented with yourself and your own style, there is absolutely no reason to hate other people for their tastes. Live and let live.
Personally I enjoy being a metrosexual not just to attract women, but I like the creativity and like taking pride in my appearance. I'm an artist, I've done some modelling, I have friends who are models and others who work in fashion, beauty therapy and photography and I have a big interest in the artistic side of fashion, grooming and enjoy experimenting with different looks.
Some people do think I'm gay or at least wonder, some people tease me about being gay, but it doesn't bother me in the slightest because I'm confident enough not to take this personally and I have confidence in my own tastes and judgement.
I would never dream of wearing the elaborate costume pictured in the article. Not because it looks gay, but because it's tasteless, it doesn't suit the guy, the colours are garish and the whole ensemble looks childish.
Also, as a side note: Survival is a different game in today's world and it's a sure bet that the well-presented, well-groomed males will go a lot further in society than the rugged macho men.
Please explain this and provide facts. If you don't then you are just talking out your ass. How is a guy who refuses to cross-dress or dress feminine insecure? Where the F-cuk are you getting that from? What f-ucking planet did you come from?
I would argue the exact opposite. In fact, it is the metros who are confused with their masculinity. They are afraid to be masculine because they believe that women won’t be attracted to them (ie they have purchased the feminizing horse s-hit that defines how to please a woman) Most metros are only metros because they are worried about looking good for the women. The problem with this is that it is submissive behavior. I’m not saying you can’t get ***** being metro. All I’m saying is that you are subjugating yourself for the women. That isn’t masculine behavior. You are a damn p-ussy and you are one step closer to sucking c-ock yourself.
I wouldn't wear a pink shirt for the same reason I wouldn't wear a bra. I'm not a female and I'm not confused with my sexuality. When I look down I see a **** and I use it to f-uk girls. I don’t need to wear a pink shirt to feel good about that.
TedJustAdmitIt
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What do you do?
Got any pics of your stuff?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.