“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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this is why a DJ is in high demand!

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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so when u knock up the girl you got with your pink shirt and the baby is a boy...are u going to dress ur son up in pink too?
 

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Have you noticed that they rarely make tough guy movies any more? The 80's and 90's were chalk full of these movies featuring Chuck Norris, Jean Claude Van Damme, Slyvester Stallone, Steven Segall, etc. Those movies were awesome. Now we have to put up with Vin Diesels crappy movies.
 

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You guys care about the color of some other guy's shirt?!

You shouldn't even care...

You know why?

Because you shouldn't have time to care.

And because it reeks of anger motivated by, what else, fear...

:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by whistler
You guys care about the color of some other guy's shirt?!

You shouldn't even care...

You know why?

Because you shouldn't have time to care.

And because it reeks of anger motivated by, what else, fear...

:rolleyes:
I don't think anybody here actually cares. We're just letting the pinky boys know that they look gay and unmanly. It's a fashion tip.

That's all :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pink shirts can work ...

with the right suit, tie, etc...

... clown does not.

Unless you're a comedian or an underground musician or artist wearing it as a joke.

... still chuckling at the pic... and imagining what anyone will do with a pic looking like that 10 years time....
 

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Spot the difference

As for the guys who are preaching the pink shirt thing, if you have to resort to dressing like a queer guy just to impress a girl, your game is lacking. I'll wear a wifebeater stained with engine oil over a barbie shirt any day of the week and still get laid. It's not what you wear, it's what's underneath it.
... if you have to resort to dressing like an unwashed auto mechanic just to impress a girl, your game is lacking. Some guys will wear a pink shirt over a wifebeater stained with engine oil any day of the week and still get laid. It's not what you wear, it's what's underneath it.
 

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Re: Spot the difference

Some guys will wear a pink shirt over a wifebeater stained with engine oil any day of the week and still get laid.
Yes, but only with members of the same gender.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Somehow this thread brought to mind the Village People (Ma-cho, Ma-cho, Ma-cho Man!)
 

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I don't wear pink but i'm strongly considering it just to piss you guys off.

Why so much hating on metrosexuals....our own Senor Fingers was a strong ADVOCATE of metrosexuality and claimed to be one in one of his posts!!!! He is the greatest dj this site has ever seen (pook being the most inspirational). Being metrosexual simply means thats you are a heterosexual male who is concerned with fashion.......so f'ing what!!!! you can still desire going to the gym, taking up jujitsu, having sex with random girls, drinking beer, watching Rambo and be concerned with your appearance.
 

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That picture from the link is from a runway show. We all know that runway shows are about the least practical fashion beacon there is. It's just a bunch of fruity toot designers trying to outdo each other in "edginess". Nobody would actually wear that crap in the real world.

Now, for pink shirts. Pink is a color. That's all it is.
It all depends on how you wear it and the type of person you are while wearing it.

If you are an AFC wearing a pink shirt, you become a princess.

If you are a DJ wearing the same pink shirt, you are a DJ with style.
 

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So many posts on this site proclaiming that the most important tenet of the DJ faith is to be secure in yourself and all I'm reading here is an outpouring of insecurity against gays, metrosexuals and pink shirts(!)? Sweet baby Jesus people!

We've got people telling us that wearing a pink shirt, because girls will sleep with you, is lame? Yeah, you're probably right, but unless you strip the DJ Bible down to its bear essentials, everything on this site is about 'game' and ways to get girls into bed. I'd have thought that any weapon in your arsenal is viable. People will tell you that you have to dress nice and buff up - these are in no way different to wearing pink shirts (nor for that matter blue shirts/yellow shirts/green shirts) because girls like certain looks.

Having said that, I don't own a pink shirt.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by thefonz
I don't wear pink but i'm strongly considering it just to piss you guys off.

lol yeah become a pinky boy to piss off a couple guys on a internet forum

best post yet:D
 

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This thread is sooooooo effing funny!!
 

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Originally posted by Hound_of_Love
So many posts on this site proclaiming that the most important tenet of the DJ faith is to be secure in yourself and all I'm reading here is an outpouring of insecurity against gays, metrosexuals and pink shirts(!)? Sweet baby Jesus people!
My thoughts exactly! If you're contented with yourself and your own style, there is absolutely no reason to hate other people for their tastes. Live and let live.

Personally I enjoy being a metrosexual not just to attract women, but I like the creativity and like taking pride in my appearance. I'm an artist, I've done some modelling, I have friends who are models and others who work in fashion, beauty therapy and photography and I have a big interest in the artistic side of fashion, grooming and enjoy experimenting with different looks.

Some people do think I'm gay or at least wonder, some people tease me about being gay, but it doesn't bother me in the slightest because I'm confident enough not to take this personally and I have confidence in my own tastes and judgement.

I would never dream of wearing the elaborate costume pictured in the article. Not because it looks gay, but because it's tasteless, it doesn't suit the guy, the colours are garish and the whole ensemble looks childish.

Also, as a side note: Survival is a different game in today's world and it's a sure bet that the well-presented, well-groomed males will go a lot further in society than the rugged macho men.
 

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I don't understand how some of you guys think that men who don't like looking feminine are insecure?

Please explain this and provide facts. If you don't then you are just talking out your ass. How is a guy who refuses to cross-dress or dress feminine insecure? Where the F-cuk are you getting that from? What f-ucking planet did you come from?

I would argue the exact opposite. In fact, it is the metros who are confused with their masculinity. They are afraid to be masculine because they believe that women won’t be attracted to them (ie they have purchased the feminizing horse s-hit that defines how to please a woman) Most metros are only metros because they are worried about looking good for the women. The problem with this is that it is submissive behavior. I’m not saying you can’t get ***** being metro. All I’m saying is that you are subjugating yourself for the women. That isn’t masculine behavior. You are a damn p-ussy and you are one step closer to sucking c-ock yourself.

I wouldn't wear a pink shirt for the same reason I wouldn't wear a bra. I'm not a female and I'm not confused with my sexuality. When I look down I see a **** and I use it to f-uk girls. I don’t need to wear a pink shirt to feel good about that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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