"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This is the funniest thing I have ever seen.
- Thread starter Bvbidd
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeah? His style fits his presentation doesn't it? What would be really funny is if he created Speed Seduction and Ross Jefferies created Gunwitch. Talk about incongruence.
skip2mylou781
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so this is THE gunwitch who i have been praising all these months???????
skip2mylou781
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hes real muscular, girls love it u cant deny that....hes REAL jacked.......its wat girls go for, id call him a "butterface" if u kno wat that is - still wat he WROTE cant be contended, he knows his shyt
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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My Pick
Hypnotika aka Rasputin strikes me as the best PUA on here.. i.e. he got natural alpha male exuding from him.... I would want him as my wing man...
also, looks has nothing to do with it.. picture can be missleading, its all about knowing how to carry yourself and knowing what to say and HOW to say it at the right time.. i.e. I can sence when a girl is easy vs not... and I will pick her up at the right time and take her home.
Hypnotika aka Rasputin strikes me as the best PUA on here.. i.e. he got natural alpha male exuding from him.... I would want him as my wing man...
also, looks has nothing to do with it.. picture can be missleading, its all about knowing how to carry yourself and knowing what to say and HOW to say it at the right time.. i.e. I can sence when a girl is easy vs not... and I will pick her up at the right time and take her home.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
does gunwitch being funny looking really have anything to do with his pua ability the answer is it probably does while most men want to date extremely goregous he only dates women in his class
Ojete
Don Juan
It depends on how you view it and your own world around you. If your idea of this pua was like the fast-talker-techniques-routines-and-stuff-kind-of-social-guy, surely his looks don't match with it. But taking in consideration what he does and teaches for getting sex, the perspective changes. Add to that the fact that there's always a kind of woman attracted to this type of build, his persistence in approaching as he teaches, and eventually there may be not just 1 or 2 or 3 women who get to bed with him, but probably dozens if he is consistent with his way of doing it.
Doesn't matter the looks in this case unless of course obvious physical un-attractors, it is all relative to the culture / personal physical tastes / kind of women one gets / etc. You see many chubby-faced girls pull many considered socially attractive guys in clubs constantly, because many of these reasons discussed above.
For me, the moral of this is to look your best, know how to proceed, and keep going.
Doesn't matter the looks in this case unless of course obvious physical un-attractors, it is all relative to the culture / personal physical tastes / kind of women one gets / etc. You see many chubby-faced girls pull many considered socially attractive guys in clubs constantly, because many of these reasons discussed above.
For me, the moral of this is to look your best, know how to proceed, and keep going.
GatorBait
Don Juan
It's hard not to judge and make preconceptions based on their pictures. But, if there is one thing I have learned throughout college it is that looks don't matter nearly as much for guys.
I've seen some very mediocre guys go home with HOT chicks on multiple occassions. I've also known guys that had girls that couldn't stop talking about how hot he was, but he never got any play.
I've seen some very mediocre guys go home with HOT chicks on multiple occassions. I've also known guys that had girls that couldn't stop talking about how hot he was, but he never got any play.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
Gunwitch always seemed older to me...
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Bvbidd said:Is that who you will take advice from to get laid?
Careful dude please dont join the growing army of crustaceans already on here.JT47319 said:The thing about AFCs are that they're a bunch of crabs in a barrel. Just as one starts to lift himself out of the barrel, the other crabs will grab him and pull him back in.
And Gunwitch method works mate, try it.
Aerospace
Don Juan
It's very motivational, instead... a lot more other PUAs (or self-proclaimed ones) are uglier than Gunwitch and equally succeed in getting p*ssy... it's all about confidence! You all should quit whining for the sake of it.
And really I cannot see how bringing down someone's looks could better your game, Bvbidd.
And really I cannot see how bringing down someone's looks could better your game, Bvbidd.
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
yea i am trying to get some pex and do more exercise by going crazy into basketball, girls will love me once i get good at basketball and get some serious pex.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Moved to AE...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When I read Gunwitch he said something about getting so horny ANY girl becomes a 10 to him. When I read that my first thought was "Gunwitch bangs fat chicks!"
Of course looks dont matter and of course his method works if you are just going to fvck random low quality chicks.
Of course looks dont matter and of course his method works if you are just going to fvck random low quality chicks.
He also goes on about doing who he feels like doing and not care what others will say. He probally ****s some pretty nasty fat-asses.The Truth said:When I read Gunwitch he said something about getting so horny ANY girl becomes a 10 to him. When I read that my first thought was "Gunwitch bangs fat chicks!"
Of course looks dont matter and of course his method works if you are just going to fvck random low quality chicks.
But of course Gunwitch works if she already thinks your better than her, and he may be fat and ugly but there are fat and uglier chicks in comparison. Of course those chicks will do him if he acts all turned on by her when every other guy rightfully vomits.
I already know that, everybody knows that.
This site is about getting girls to be attracted to you. Not just going out and ****ing whatever you can.
So Gunwitch sucks and so does PUA tactics somewhere in the middle of both is what we all should be aiming for.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.