"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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this is out of character for me but

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i kind of got thrown off today. i was talking to two girls on my crew team (one of which i ****ed, the other just hooked up with) and they were knocking me for being an "overachiever" and having goals. at first i thought they were kidding and doing that to **** with me, but it seems like they were dead serious about it.

is it because i make them look bad, or are they somehow honestly not attracted to a goal oriented man?

i'm definitely thinking the former, but i'd like some feedback nonetheless.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm no expert but I'll take a stab...

If they were serious... than they definately felt inferior to you. You indimidated them because you made them insecure about their own lives. That's not a good basis of a relationship.... but as a **** buddy it will do.

It much the same reason some girls don't like pretty boys. They are supposed to be the 'pretty' ones... not their man! haha. They feel inferior to their man because of this and it will never work.
 
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possibly. also, i failed to mention this. the girl that i hooked up with was the one who made the comment really,and she's been trying to win my approval as of lately. i can tell though that once i stop being a challenge she'll lose interest and it's just to fuel her own ego. so i guess in the bigger picture, what she said is just showing her insecurity.
 
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