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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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this is out of character for me but

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i kind of got thrown off today. i was talking to two girls on my crew team (one of which i ****ed, the other just hooked up with) and they were knocking me for being an "overachiever" and having goals. at first i thought they were kidding and doing that to **** with me, but it seems like they were dead serious about it.

is it because i make them look bad, or are they somehow honestly not attracted to a goal oriented man?

i'm definitely thinking the former, but i'd like some feedback nonetheless.
 

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I'm no expert but I'll take a stab...

If they were serious... than they definately felt inferior to you. You indimidated them because you made them insecure about their own lives. That's not a good basis of a relationship.... but as a **** buddy it will do.

It much the same reason some girls don't like pretty boys. They are supposed to be the 'pretty' ones... not their man! haha. They feel inferior to their man because of this and it will never work.
 
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possibly. also, i failed to mention this. the girl that i hooked up with was the one who made the comment really,and she's been trying to win my approval as of lately. i can tell though that once i stop being a challenge she'll lose interest and it's just to fuel her own ego. so i guess in the bigger picture, what she said is just showing her insecurity.
 
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