"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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this is out of character for me but

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i kind of got thrown off today. i was talking to two girls on my crew team (one of which i ****ed, the other just hooked up with) and they were knocking me for being an "overachiever" and having goals. at first i thought they were kidding and doing that to **** with me, but it seems like they were dead serious about it.

is it because i make them look bad, or are they somehow honestly not attracted to a goal oriented man?

i'm definitely thinking the former, but i'd like some feedback nonetheless.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm no expert but I'll take a stab...

If they were serious... than they definately felt inferior to you. You indimidated them because you made them insecure about their own lives. That's not a good basis of a relationship.... but as a **** buddy it will do.

It much the same reason some girls don't like pretty boys. They are supposed to be the 'pretty' ones... not their man! haha. They feel inferior to their man because of this and it will never work.
 
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possibly. also, i failed to mention this. the girl that i hooked up with was the one who made the comment really,and she's been trying to win my approval as of lately. i can tell though that once i stop being a challenge she'll lose interest and it's just to fuel her own ego. so i guess in the bigger picture, what she said is just showing her insecurity.
 
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