"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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this is last message she ever sent me dudes this is bull****

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Do not respond to this because your number is blocked from my phone. DO NOT contact me again. If you contact me one more time I will call the police and make a complaint for harassment. I will also file an order of protection. You have taken this too far and I am afraid of your actions. Please stop.

I just giving her flowers and tryin get her to talk its bull**** man.

I just dont understand why complain about stuff and was going to do the stuff and everything and do fun stuff planned then she pulls this crap about not wanting be with me and being distant it doesnt make sense i didnt do nothing horribly wrong???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bigneil

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I've been there dude. Women like to pretend they are so beautiful that they need police protection, but studies have shown that you could leave a person on a street corner and it would take 10,000 years for them to be abducted. And great idea! Let's call armed strangers on steroids who have legal immunity to the scene.
 

Mr. Kalikoat

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Do you ever listen to any of the advice given to you on this forum? Or are you just here to share your sob stories and get some attention?

If you listened to the advice your fellow DJ homies gave you this would never have happened.

Drop the b!tch and go full NC. Read the '60 days no contact challenge' thread and start today.
 

FortunateSon

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Woah, dude, sh*t just got serious!

How did the hell do you go from seeing a girl to her threatening to phone the police?
 

Bible_Belt

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You've said you're in St Louis. I told you to follow Cardinals baseball, because it will give you something in common with just about everyone, including a lot of women. I also told you to find a pet rescue charity and go adopt out cute puppies on Saturdays. I'm not in the city, but I'm not that far away, and I am telling you that these two things will help you a lot with women here.

And yet, I doubt you took either piece of advice, and now you are being threatened with cops. Make the right choices, and bullsh!t like this won't happen to you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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VikingKing

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It's going to look real bad if your record shows your harassing some one, or stalking, or anything like that.

When potential employers look up your record, they will label you as crazy and thats bad.
 
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