Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This is just wrong!

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A friend from work showed this to me and well.....I figured you guys would have a field day with it...
Just read the first line of his about me section......
I used to think like that when I was in High School and I thank you guys for helping me see the light....

If you're on myspace send this guy a messege telling him what an idiot he is.....that would just make my day!

Sarge on!

:rockon:


Oh yea I'm working on a post called Getting your groove on: A DJ's guide to dancing......

for all the rookies who can't dance. I'd appreciate any tips you guys wanna throw my way to include....thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AFC ALERT!!!!! :cheer:
 

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(Stroke me chin) Mmmmmm I wonder why

But the funniest part has to be

Drum roll please

Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!

Movies: Any movie with Renée Zellweger
 

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The sweater... oh godddd!
 

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That was shocking. He's in a very advanced stat of AFCness... Guess when one achieves that stat there's no turning back. Poor him. :kick:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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take a look at his list of "friends"

luck, good looks, money....all waisted on idiots......
 

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LOL...

I'm just thinking about the bull**** quality posts that he gets... when a chick sends you an ****in digital image, you can pretty much bet she's gettin' at you on a superficial level.

But then again... the brother might make a good addition to the community... lol...
 

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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Ah. that was great. good times...

*takes deep breath*


*breaks into another hysterical laughter*
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guys, check out the number of 'friends' he has in his friend list. Women outnumbered the men... what do you all have think of his achievements?
 

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amoka said:
Guys, check out the number of 'friends' he has in his friend list. Women outnumbered the men... what do you all have think of his achievements?
I like Moana! :D

But seriously, those women are FRIENDS...dont you get it? ;)

Women want friendchip from men who are kind to them or men that they think that they can use (boy...is HE a big fish or what lmao). No attraction. It's doubtful to me.
 

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Ok, even the TITLE of the poster was sickening!

Seriosuly, that guy needs a serious wake up call, either that or hes gay!
 
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"To me, it's important to be kind to women because they are so much better than .us. It's easy for men to objectify women or categorize women in such a way that desensitizes a man's attitudes to them, but every woman has a spark and a light that cannot be ignored. Today's mass media is making us forget a truth about women that used to be commonplace knowledge. Let women lead when they want to, but also let women be cared for when they want to be"

This bastard should be hung to death for saying so much wrong in such a few words!!! After he is hung then he should be shot and then drowned and then set on fire to a heap of ashes!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Last Man Standing said:
"To me, it's important to be kind to women because they are so much better than .us. It's easy for men to objectify women or categorize women in such a way that desensitizes a man's attitudes to them, but every woman has a spark and a light that cannot be ignored. Today's mass media is making us forget a truth about women that used to be commonplace knowledge. Let women lead when they want to, but also let women be cared for when they want to be"

This bastard should be hung to death for saying so much wrong in such a few words!!! After he is hung then he should be shot and then drowned and then set on fire to a heap of ashes!!
Hpw exactly do you drown a dead guy?
 

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Maybe we should invite him over to Don Juan. Now that would be a real blast. :flowers: :yes:
 
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