"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is just wrong!

El MonoLoco

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A friend from work showed this to me and well.....I figured you guys would have a field day with it...
Just read the first line of his about me section......
I used to think like that when I was in High School and I thank you guys for helping me see the light....

If you're on myspace send this guy a messege telling him what an idiot he is.....that would just make my day!

Sarge on!

:rockon:


Oh yea I'm working on a post called Getting your groove on: A DJ's guide to dancing......

for all the rookies who can't dance. I'd appreciate any tips you guys wanna throw my way to include....thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AFC ALERT!!!!! :cheer:
 

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(Stroke me chin) Mmmmmm I wonder why

But the funniest part has to be

Drum roll please

Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!

Movies: Any movie with Renée Zellweger
 

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The sweater... oh godddd!
 

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That was shocking. He's in a very advanced stat of AFCness... Guess when one achieves that stat there's no turning back. Poor him. :kick:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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take a look at his list of "friends"

luck, good looks, money....all waisted on idiots......
 

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LOL...

I'm just thinking about the bull**** quality posts that he gets... when a chick sends you an ****in digital image, you can pretty much bet she's gettin' at you on a superficial level.

But then again... the brother might make a good addition to the community... lol...
 

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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Ah. that was great. good times...

*takes deep breath*


*breaks into another hysterical laughter*
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Guys, check out the number of 'friends' he has in his friend list. Women outnumbered the men... what do you all have think of his achievements?
 

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amoka said:
Guys, check out the number of 'friends' he has in his friend list. Women outnumbered the men... what do you all have think of his achievements?
I like Moana! :D

But seriously, those women are FRIENDS...dont you get it? ;)

Women want friendchip from men who are kind to them or men that they think that they can use (boy...is HE a big fish or what lmao). No attraction. It's doubtful to me.
 

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Ok, even the TITLE of the poster was sickening!

Seriosuly, that guy needs a serious wake up call, either that or hes gay!
 
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"To me, it's important to be kind to women because they are so much better than .us. It's easy for men to objectify women or categorize women in such a way that desensitizes a man's attitudes to them, but every woman has a spark and a light that cannot be ignored. Today's mass media is making us forget a truth about women that used to be commonplace knowledge. Let women lead when they want to, but also let women be cared for when they want to be"

This bastard should be hung to death for saying so much wrong in such a few words!!! After he is hung then he should be shot and then drowned and then set on fire to a heap of ashes!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Last Man Standing said:
"To me, it's important to be kind to women because they are so much better than .us. It's easy for men to objectify women or categorize women in such a way that desensitizes a man's attitudes to them, but every woman has a spark and a light that cannot be ignored. Today's mass media is making us forget a truth about women that used to be commonplace knowledge. Let women lead when they want to, but also let women be cared for when they want to be"

This bastard should be hung to death for saying so much wrong in such a few words!!! After he is hung then he should be shot and then drowned and then set on fire to a heap of ashes!!
Hpw exactly do you drown a dead guy?
 

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Maybe we should invite him over to Don Juan. Now that would be a real blast. :flowers: :yes:
 
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