positivity_injection
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Edit: ****in nerds, u cant be helped
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This is how i talk to a female (learn)
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
positivity_injection
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initially, i would talk to a girl like im a cool guy who wants to hang out, thats pretty much it.......all the sexualizing happens in person........girls feel like its something "SPECIAL" when all the sexual stuff happens supposedly "OUT OF NOWHERE"
positivity_injection
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alot of times, u gotta talk to a girl like you KNOW that you own her, and using the word "baby" is a good way to implement that my friendPlayToWin said:very nice job, better than I would have done probably, however use of the word baby got a little annoying, but its got the job done so who cares.
My Name is Nobody
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positivity_injection said:
How fat is she?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
jakeyboy
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I'm doubtful. I keep feeling like the whole conversation was just very pushy, like you were desperately trying to get her to go out with you. Cut down on that a tad mate.
positivity_injection
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My Name is Nobody said:
well fag, she is 5'7 and weighs 120lbs u fvckin loser
edit: to Pivitor, nope im not DjDan
L777
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Lol funny s.hit. baby baby baby. Not my thing - you can say almost anything to a girl who's already attracted though, particularly through the medium of IM.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Faded Image
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You're earning a free ticket to the banned wagon.
positivity_injection
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Edit: ****in nerds, u cant be helped
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
positivity_injection
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Nighthawk said:
yea dummy, i was gonna see her already next tuesday, but offered to see her earlier too, and like i said i ****ed her already, so your joke isnt funny homo
Rhoto
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Stop crying.
ima str8 up pimp
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baby?... maybe right after sex as a compliment, idk...L777 said:
personally... and I say personally it seems really gay, she can earn the title and I mean that litterally, it's just not kosher.
I agree L777.
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He's mad as hellllllllll
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.