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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is how i talk to a female (learn)
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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initially, i would talk to a girl like im a cool guy who wants to hang out, thats pretty much it.......all the sexualizing happens in person........girls feel like its something "SPECIAL" when all the sexual stuff happens supposedly "OUT OF NOWHERE"
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alot of times, u gotta talk to a girl like you KNOW that you own her, and using the word "baby" is a good way to implement that my friendPlayToWin said:very nice job, better than I would have done probably, however use of the word baby got a little annoying, but its got the job done so who cares.
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positivity_injection said:
How fat is she?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
jakeyboy
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I'm doubtful. I keep feeling like the whole conversation was just very pushy, like you were desperately trying to get her to go out with you. Cut down on that a tad mate.
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My Name is Nobody said:
well fag, she is 5'7 and weighs 120lbs u fvckin loser
edit: to Pivitor, nope im not DjDan
L777
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Lol funny s.hit. baby baby baby. Not my thing - you can say almost anything to a girl who's already attracted though, particularly through the medium of IM.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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You're earning a free ticket to the banned wagon.
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Edit: ****in nerds, u cant be helped
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Nighthawk said:
yea dummy, i was gonna see her already next tuesday, but offered to see her earlier too, and like i said i ****ed her already, so your joke isnt funny homo
Rhoto
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Stop crying.
ima str8 up pimp
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baby?... maybe right after sex as a compliment, idk...L777 said:
personally... and I say personally it seems really gay, she can earn the title and I mean that litterally, it's just not kosher.
I agree L777.
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He's mad as hellllllllll
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.