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Edit: ****in nerds, u cant be helped
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is how i talk to a female (learn)
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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initially, i would talk to a girl like im a cool guy who wants to hang out, thats pretty much it.......all the sexualizing happens in person........girls feel like its something "SPECIAL" when all the sexual stuff happens supposedly "OUT OF NOWHERE"
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alot of times, u gotta talk to a girl like you KNOW that you own her, and using the word "baby" is a good way to implement that my friendPlayToWin said:very nice job, better than I would have done probably, however use of the word baby got a little annoying, but its got the job done so who cares.
My Name is Nobody
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positivity_injection said:
How fat is she?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jakeyboy
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I'm doubtful. I keep feeling like the whole conversation was just very pushy, like you were desperately trying to get her to go out with you. Cut down on that a tad mate.
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My Name is Nobody said:
well fag, she is 5'7 and weighs 120lbs u fvckin loser
edit: to Pivitor, nope im not DjDan
L777
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Lol funny s.hit. baby baby baby. Not my thing - you can say almost anything to a girl who's already attracted though, particularly through the medium of IM.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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You're earning a free ticket to the banned wagon.
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Edit: ****in nerds, u cant be helped
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Nighthawk said:
yea dummy, i was gonna see her already next tuesday, but offered to see her earlier too, and like i said i ****ed her already, so your joke isnt funny homo
Rhoto
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Stop crying.
ima str8 up pimp
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baby?... maybe right after sex as a compliment, idk...L777 said:
personally... and I say personally it seems really gay, she can earn the title and I mean that litterally, it's just not kosher.
I agree L777.
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He's mad as hellllllllll
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.