Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What's so special about this bull****?makinwOmensmOuthdrOp said:--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: Hey wassup
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: hey
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: whats goin on?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: sorta bored
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: u
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah same here
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: let me guess, 17/f/az
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: close
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: 17 f canada
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: n u?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: 1 yr older, not female, in us
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: what's azn
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: r u hot?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: of course
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: lol
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: got msn?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: oe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: what?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: outlook express, alltel.
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: got email
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah i do u want it?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: maybe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: well ok nm then
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: well that's ur choice
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: why you gonna write to meh?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: give it to me and find out.
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: ok
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: sexygirl_angel_17!edited.com
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: its [email protected]
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: alright i got it
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: ok, i ttyl
Guys, it's that easy. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD IF YOU ARE NOT GOOD WITH WOMEN THAN GET GOOD WITH THEM. It is not hard.
I can not stress enough to you AFC's to get out there and just talk to women. Internet, club, wherever. Go do it!
P.S.- That is not her real E-Mail, notice the "edited".
makinwOmensmOuthdrOp said:--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: r u hot?makinwOmensmOuthdrOp said:It show's real world interaction and is not just some advice.
I'm trying to show guys that dont believe they can get a email/# that they can do it and it happens all the time.
...You know, im a big fan of effort and I agree with the positive replies here...but how in the hell is asking "are you hot?" in person real world interaction? Im sorry dood, I just found myself literally laughing out loud thinking of what this scenario in real life just might have looked like hahaha. You go up to an obviously attractive girl and just ask "are you hot?" hahaha.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Hah, you've seen Peter Kay, haven't you?Posted by someguyuk
Well thats a belter that, isnt it? first things first, lets try first things third shall we?
makinwOmensmOuthdrOp said:--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: Hey wassup
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: hey
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: whats goin on?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: sorta bored
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: u
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah same here
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: let me guess, 17/f/az
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: close
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: 17 f canada
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: n u?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: 1 yr older, not female, in us
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: what's azn
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: r u hot?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: of course
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: lol
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: got msn?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: oe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: what?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: outlook express, alltel.
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: got email
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah i do u want it?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: maybe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: well ok nm then
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: well that's ur choice
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: why you gonna write to meh?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: give it to me and find out.
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: ok
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: sexygirl_angel_17!edited.com
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: its [email protected]
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: alright i got it
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: ok, i ttyl
khash said:he doesnt know he just got laughed by a chick behind a computer. yea buddy, u go mack those chicks online, theyr really digging you. LOOLLLLLLLL
She was laughing there somewhere, but I can't put my finger on it.[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: got email
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah i do u want it?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: maybe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: well ok nm then
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: well that's ur choice
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: why you gonna write to meh?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: give it to me and find out.
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: ok
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: sexygirl_angel_17!edited.com
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: its [email protected]
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.