Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What's so special about this bull****?makinwOmensmOuthdrOp said:--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: Hey wassup
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: hey
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: whats goin on?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: sorta bored
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: u
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah same here
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: let me guess, 17/f/az
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: close
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: 17 f canada
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: n u?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: 1 yr older, not female, in us
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: what's azn
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: r u hot?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: of course
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: lol
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: got msn?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: oe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: what?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: outlook express, alltel.
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: got email
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah i do u want it?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: maybe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: well ok nm then
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: well that's ur choice
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: why you gonna write to meh?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: give it to me and find out.
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: ok
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: sexygirl_angel_17!edited.com
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: its [email protected]
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: alright i got it
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: ok, i ttyl
Guys, it's that easy. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD IF YOU ARE NOT GOOD WITH WOMEN THAN GET GOOD WITH THEM. It is not hard.
I can not stress enough to you AFC's to get out there and just talk to women. Internet, club, wherever. Go do it!
P.S.- That is not her real E-Mail, notice the "edited".
makinwOmensmOuthdrOp said:--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: r u hot?makinwOmensmOuthdrOp said:It show's real world interaction and is not just some advice.
I'm trying to show guys that dont believe they can get a email/# that they can do it and it happens all the time.
...You know, im a big fan of effort and I agree with the positive replies here...but how in the hell is asking "are you hot?" in person real world interaction? Im sorry dood, I just found myself literally laughing out loud thinking of what this scenario in real life just might have looked like hahaha. You go up to an obviously attractive girl and just ask "are you hot?" hahaha.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hah, you've seen Peter Kay, haven't you?Posted by someguyuk
Well thats a belter that, isnt it? first things first, lets try first things third shall we?
makinwOmensmOuthdrOp said:--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: Hey wassup
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: hey
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: whats goin on?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: sorta bored
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: u
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah same here
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: let me guess, 17/f/az
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: close
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: 17 f canada
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: n u?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: 1 yr older, not female, in us
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: what's azn
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: r u hot?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: of course
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: lol
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: got msn?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: oe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: what?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: outlook express, alltel.
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: got email
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah i do u want it?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: maybe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: well ok nm then
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: well that's ur choice
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: why you gonna write to meh?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: give it to me and find out.
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: ok
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: sexygirl_angel_17!edited.com
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: its [email protected]
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: alright i got it
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: ok, i ttyl
khash said:he doesnt know he just got laughed by a chick behind a computer. yea buddy, u go mack those chicks online, theyr really digging you. LOOLLLLLLLL
She was laughing there somewhere, but I can't put my finger on it.[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: got email
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah i do u want it?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: maybe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: well ok nm then
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: well that's ur choice
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: why you gonna write to meh?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: give it to me and find out.
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: ok
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: sexygirl_angel_17!edited.com
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: its [email protected]
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.